Honestly, I have never gone to see any girl and not fucked her or at least gotten a BJ.
Remember the Jgirl in Mississauga who wouldn't fuck most of the guys that booked her? I fucked her first visit. Took me less than 1 minute to get her agree to sex. Simple.
If you don't get sex from a girl in the industry, you are either dirty, too rough with her, too rude with her or something similar. The girls in this industry know guys want at least a BJ, so it isn't hard to get any of them to provide you with one.
When I was arranging to see Jaime - the sexiest MPA in the industry at the moment, a girl who looks like a highschool teenager with a killer body, I didn't ask her what she did or how much she charged. I told her what I wanted and what I was going to pay her. Simple. You have to tell people what you want if you are to be a satisfied customer. You can't just act like a baby duckling 24/7 and then complain when you dont get what you needed.