Attendant Arousal - Fact or Fiction

[love bug]

Sheik.. I cannot believe that you have not been called out as yet...

That look on her face when she says OMG is not extacy, it's disgust


RS great post.... I have no doubt that I have had both.. the fakers and genuine interest with mpa and sps. Regardless of what some guys on this board think most of the girls in this industry are just ordinary people with the same urges and needs that we all have.

 

[Luveena]

RS,

You should have your own permanent thread called "Ask Red". In it lonely hobbyists would ask you how they could improve their sessions and capture the hearts of their MPA's.

Here's my question.

When an MPA says to me "Everytime I see your name in the appointment book I instantly feel like I'm gonna throw up in my mouth, and think about quitting"

Do you think she's just playing hard to get, or do you think she truly hates seeing me?

 

[keo1095]

A recent thread posing the question about arousal (by Spode) got me
to thinking about this question. I would have thought, that through the reviews,
that you massageplanet.netites experience this often.

Unless of course you are unsure whether it is acting or if what you are experiencing is the real deal.
Have any of you considered yourself to be experienced enough in
decifering these actors vs. real arousal? Do you think all mpa's are acting
in the session or that you have experienced the real attraction without a doubt.

Do you prefer to assume she is acting to avoid feeling foolish by thinking that she may really be into you only to find out she is this way with everybody.
Could any of these theories involve YMMV. The mpa is fantastic with you and
average with another. Now, YMMV can be for many, many reasons, ie: bad day,
personal problems, difficult previous client, illness (cold, flu etc..) but do you
sometimes feel special when you know you have always received great sessions
from an mpa when others have had mixed reviews about the same mpa?

I know some of you are deadfast in believing that some mpa's all carry the same
MO (modus operandi) and some of you believe you have met very special, nice,
truly sincere mpa's who genually like you and are not trying to pull the "I'll act
this way so he will fall in love and continue to see me" act.

I know this thread has a lot of different questions and observations, but
the real point of the thread is:
Have you met an mpa you know, or continue to see, who you know definately enjoys
you and likewise? No acting required!

 

[Miss B XOXO]

Fair enough.



Well on the account of me being a pathetic loser, obviously that's the only way I can keep myself from going insane. If I could get more, I would. Alas, the fairer sex does have an inane ability to be ever so elusive. I simply do not have the patience nor the ability to attract them.



I suppose I am looking in all the wrong places. Including the right places.



Good PR++



I don't really enjoy my job. If I had a choice and still get paid, I wouldn't do it. But it's a necessity. I don't think I could enjoy any job, because it's something I have to do. I'd rather do what I want, not what I have to. But I guess this is besides the point, huh?

I suppose it is your job and perhaps I'll just leave it at that. To dig further would be unwise.

 

[pugpaws2]

You need to come to the SRM party. I know you would like to keep your identity a secret. So maybe you can come in disguise.

Now wasn't that clever

 

[Crow T. Robot]

Is men that different from women??? I guess men always equate getting hard-on to being aroused. Do women who fake able to separate the physical reactions to the emotional???

 

[techrockstar]

I would let it go Angelina and ask the moderators to close this thread.

 

[child of the sky]

magic is just an illusion, my dear angelina.


you are hot as well-
has anyone told you that you look gorgeous?

 

[LALA13]

Which are?

I don't see why you'd be so shy about naming any spa's you consider to be upscale.

I mean, your face is shown all over your website and even in your sig. line.

 

[Chris]

it's never too late to change your job. I heard the statistic is something like the average person changes occupations 7 times in their life. And just because a job is something you have to do, doesn't mean you can't enjoy it. I even used to have a 'job' that most would see as ideal: big office building, wearing a suit, 9-5 every weekday, nice stable paycheck....but I think you should not feel obligated to stay at a job that has you that unhappy. So I quit. Yes, a job is just a means to fund your life, but when you spend as much time working as most people do, then you have to be happy with it. So maybe my paycheck isn't stable and neither are my work hours, but I'm happy. And you deserve to be too, WarAxe.


And on to topic...yes, SP's and MPA's can enjoy their work. Why should they feel obligated to *not* charge just because they are having fun. Fun without money is too much like a relationship....and that can be more work than a job! LOL

smile, guys

 

[TerribleTaylor]

My favorite trick is making the salami disappear.

 

[smithers]

The esalen technique sounds like a finishing move in wrestling.

Wouldn't it be sexy if Val Venus used the esalen technique to end each match? When his opponent is hurt, Val would start with long strokes while showing them just how relaxing quality of touch, breath and the presense of a shirtless sexy male truly is. Before you know it, the opponent wouldn't even realize that Val has pinned them for the 1,2,3.

All thanks to the trusty esalen technique.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Yes my darling, thats why I keep coming to see you because I know I make you say OH MY GOD! in less than a minute after we disrobe.

 

[Jabril]

We are simply much more complicated than men.

 

[Extra Crispy]

I believe Angelina worked at A&R.

I used to go to A&R, it sure ain't classy.

Rusty I think you need to chill a bit and maybe a poll can decided whether massageplanet.net members believe her or consider themselves Classy and upscale.

 

[hudsongray]

Time out, buddy. You and I need to talk.
Relax, is it time for a session? (Not with me! - ha ha)

 

[NSA]

>I thought, what I was asking was if anyone
sees an mpa or has seen an mpa who definately enjoys you & likewise.

Right. No and yes, respectively.


>I see how the word arousal has put a spin on the question, and although
it's still a good question, I was not, per say, speaking of orgasm's.

Neither was I.


>I said "Attendant Arousal - Fact or Fiction", but I mean, and many of
you picked up on it - the "realness" of the session. She really likes you.
Not outside of the MP, not pertaining to future relationships, but
she actually enjoys seeing you. You are her customer at that moment,
but for whatever reason, 1. She's already has an SO 2. She has a rule
about dating customers 3. She's afraid to approach you
4. She doesn't want a relationship at that time
5. She thinks your attached and not interested
6. She just wants to keep the time in the room with you, IN THE ROOM

Right. The answer is no.


>Whatever the reason, the session she has with you, is like being with
a guy (not boyfriend) that you occasionally in your life, call up, get together,
have dinner, laughs, then intimacy. Someone you like, someone for that 1/2 /hour you can be real with.

Exactly. And the answer is still "no".


>Your funny, your nice,

Aw, shucks. You'll make me blush....


>you think the same, have the same interests,
and enjoy the intimacy aspect just as much.

Right. Still... gotta say "no".


>Just because the money is exchanged, and
continue's to be exchanged, doesn't mean the mpa doesn't enjoy you.

No. But other things do.


>If a woman is in sales, and she sells you a product, and you
like her and she likes you, you flirt whenever you meet at the office, is it
unfathomable that because you still talk business, and she is still selling you
that product that she cannot like you because you are still conducting business?

Of course not. But it doesn't mean that she IS attracted to you, either.


>She can still like you and supply you with your product, without taking it outside! You know, a secret attraction.

Yes.


>I can't understand how some men could say "No, she's
just playing with me, so I continue to buy her product" Of course, that could very well be the case sometimes, but not all the time. No way.

Yes way. And "gamesmanship" is not the only underlying reason, either.

You assume that friendly behaviour, good nature, and kindness MUST be definitive displays of affection. Because I don't.

Not HATING someone is much different than TRULY liking (let alone wanting to see) someone.


>That's when I start to think that maybe this man has issues with the constant thought that all females are out to use and abuse them.

Not at all. I've met some wonderful women, who have showered me with both kindness and pleasure, with no suspected ulterior motive. I adore all of them... some WAY more than I should.

But I have no delusion that the adoration is anything but strictly uni-directional. With one possible exception (and I still can't figure that out), I have yet to see anything to suggest the opposite.


>Your mpa may not to be able to take things further, she may not want to take things further, it doesn't mean that unless your get her out of the MP, in her apt making love to her, that this is the only sign of true affection.

Of course not. But in the absence of ANY other sign of true affection, it's not very logical to make that the conclusion....


>I find some men,( I said some), write women off so quickly ... that you have approached her differently.

Seems horribly impolite to "approach" her at all at work.


>I used the word arousal, because although it is deemed by many people
a "sexual" word, in literature, porno etc...the word arousal, as VBB said,
can mean arousal physically, mentally, emotionally etc....but I did mean
it almost how it was refered to, but a little two-fold, or sorry, three fold.
Physically, mentally & emotionally. She enjoys you physically, engages in conversations with you mentally, and you share the same emotions.

Right. No, on occasion, and not even close. In that order.


>I wrote this real late, so forgive and please disagree if you feel necessary.
I am always open to different opinions, and I love analyzing people's different
personality's. Please don't refrain from explaining your points!

Nothing to forgive. You sound like a very nice lady, and I should like to have had made your acquaintance.

 

[Scooch]

However (not to be cynical) - Reminds me of a quote a good friend of mine used to say: A man chases a woman until she lets him catch her.

AC

 

[KaNi]

women are great actors....sometimes it's more easier figuring out magic tricks than figuring out a woman. i guess it's a combination of fact & fiction and depends on the woman as well.

 

[JudyIsAPunk]

Translation - I've never worked at an upscale spa, so I don't know what it's like. Unfrotunately I'm not woman enough to admit that, so i'll just leave him with a weak ass response like "You'd like more fuel for the fire".



You're actually creative and immature enough to bring my mother into the discussion. Who is feeding you your insults? A 10 year old?



Whoa, 2 references to my mother in one post. That's certainly the mark of a classy and upscale cock sucker, err, woman.

Maybe next post you can bring up my dad.