Dating a massage happy ending girl...

[Vancoboy]

Would you like to date girl who is masseuse, or one who do happy ending?


If yes, why? If no, why not?

 

[Bob the Knob]

Been there done that on many occasions.

Many of these ladies work long hard hours and some don't have anyone in their lives who will stick around because of what they do. As a result they do like to go out with clients occasionally for dinners nod such. Some will allow the relationship to include sex while others just want the companionship.

Don't forget, they are getting naked and providing some sexual extras all day long every day they work, so expecting them to be want to do that on their time off is a bit assuming.

I have had all, free while having the relationship, paid while having this kind of relationship and no sex while having this kind of relationship. In all cases I have enjoyed the time I spent with each and every one

 

[MisterMister]

It was long ago but for about a year I saw a massage SP at her home about once ,sometimes twice a week and it was always all about sex of all types, was very delightful and she did not want compensation. I think she wanted a true FWB who would do everything he could to get her off. Fond memories.

 

[explorerforever]

Would you like to date girl who is masseuse, or one who do happy ending?


If yes, why? If no, why not?

If it's about having good time, lots fun, sure why not.

If its about serious relationship, no way. Why? Can you imagine your girlfriend or wife go to work to do happy ending with 4 or five different guy's every day, they touching her, blow job or sex....How you will feel about it?
All this girl know it and they give up to have family (husband+kids)for fast money, fun and sex...

 

[Qster]

Unlike Bob, I have never mixed business with pleasure so I cannot say from real experience. Judging from the fact that I hire RMTs routinely, I hire escorts/AMP individuals regularly; yet, my favorite is a RMT who provides happy endings... this tells me that I want both and I would never settle for one or the other.

Strangely, that type of questions do get asked when you are on certain vacations for singles. If you are to spend a week or two with a certain individual, do you want a young beautiful girl with zero experiences but loads of energy or an older lady who has learned to cater to every aspect of your needs. Needs, I meant massages of course!

 

[Diablo]

Happened to me.

I was seeing her often. It happened two time I got FS from her. She got pregnant. She said, I made her pregnant. I was suspicious about it, but couldn’t proof anything. This three month we were in relationship. I felt I am like in hell.

She went to work every day, having customers…etc. She said she only do massage that time, nothing else. But I saw some reviews about her that time and I confront her with it. She deny all it. One time I catch her, she was lying, she cheat on me and she still was pregnant that time. I didn’t know what to do. We fight lots. On third month her pregnancy we together made decision and she did abortions. After that I left her.

 

[Bob the Knob]

I neglected to mention, if you are planning on seeing a provider outside of work, never do it with the thoughts of being their one and only.

Work was never in our conversations, and as I said, I never meet outside of the business relationship with the thought of getting it free. If there is a chance we are going to have sex, I will always offer to pay. If it becomes free awesome. If it is nothing more than, dinners, movies, short trips with a hug and a kiss after - great. When I go back to their work environment it is normal paid experiences. I would still see other providers too. I never became infatuated with one lady just because she was seeing me outside of work. That is crazy.

Only once did I have one gal who said she would never see anyone else outside of her business while we were together. In return I did not see any other providers during that time. She also moved in with me while she continued to escort. I even drove her to some appointments and picked her up. On a couple of occasions, I was invited in for some threesome and foursome action. Sex was great and both our needs were met.

That lasted over two years. Eventually we broke it off, because of our age difference (40 years). That prevented us from doing some couple type things just because society frowned upon that age discrepancy. We are still friends to this day. In fact every lady I saw outside of their work environment I have had kept in touch to this day. Birthday wishes, Mother's Day flowers and sometimes the odd coffee as we get together.

I am planning a B.C trip to visit with one lady I met 10 years ago. She is out of the business, has two little girls and a husband. We have always kept in touch and get together whenever we can. No sex involved anymore, just good memories and continuing friendship.

Remember, if you do date a provider, that is her job. Never ask about her dates or discuss them. You will only mess things up. Do the things with her that attracted you to her in the first place and never judge. The moment that happens it's over.

And never quibble about money you gave her or lent her, it's gone let it be. You decided at the time you spent the money that was what you wanted to do, so let it be, as the Beattle's song says.

 

[sandy7677]

I neglected to mention, if you are planning on seeing a provider outside of work, never do it with the thoughts of being their one and only.

Work was never in our conversations, and as I said, I never meet outside of the business relationship with the thought of getting it free. If there is a chance we are going to have sex, I will always offer to pay. If it becomes free awesome. If it is nothing more than, dinners, movies, short trips with a hug and a kiss after - great. When I go back to their work environment it is normal paid experiences. I would still see other providers too. I never became infatuated with one lady just because she was seeing me outside of work. That is crazy.

Only once did I have one gal who said she would never see anyone else outside of her business while we were together. In return I did not see any other providers during that time. She also moved in with me while she continued to escort. I even drove her to some appointments and picked her up. On a couple of occasions, I was invited in for some threesome and foursome action. Sex was great and both our needs were met.

That lasted over two years. Eventually we broke it off, because of our age difference (40 years). That prevented us from doing some couple type things just because society frowned upon that age discrepancy. We are still friends to this day. In fact every lady I saw outside of their work environment I have had kept in touch to this day. Birthday wishes, Mother's Day flowers and sometimes the odd coffee as we get together.

I am planning a B.C trip to visit with one lady I met 10 years ago. She is out of the business, has two little girls and a husband. We have always kept in touch and get together whenever we can. No sex involved anymore, just good memories and continuing friendship.

Remember, if you do date a provider, that is her job. Never ask about her dates or discuss them. You will only mess things up. Do the things with her that attracted you to her in the first place and never judge. The moment that happens it's over.

And never quibble about money you gave her or lent her, it's gone let it be. You decided at the time you spent the money that was what you wanted to do, so let it be, as the Beattle's song says.

send me contacts at sssandip7677@gmail . com

 

[Vancoboy]

I neglected to mention, if you are planning on seeing a provider outside of work, never do it with the thoughts of being their one and only.

Work was never in our conversations, and as I said, I never meet outside of the business relationship with the thought of getting it free. If there is a chance we are going to have sex, I will always offer to pay. If it becomes free awesome. If it is nothing more than, dinners, movies, short trips with a hug and a kiss after - great. When I go back to their work environment it is normal paid experiences. I would still see other providers too. I never became infatuated with one lady just because she was seeing me outside of work. That is crazy.

Only once did I have one gal who said she would never see anyone else outside of her business while we were together. In return I did not see any other providers during that time. She also moved in with me while she continued to escort. I even drove her to some appointments and picked her up. On a couple of occasions, I was invited in for some threesome and foursome action. Sex was great and both our needs were met.

That lasted over two years. Eventually we broke it off, because of our age difference (40 years). That prevented us from doing some couple type things just because society frowned upon that age discrepancy. We are still friends to this day. In fact every lady I saw outside of their work environment I have had kept in touch to this day. Birthday wishes, Mother's Day flowers and sometimes the odd coffee as we get together.

I am planning a B.C trip to visit with one lady I met 10 years ago. She is out of the business, has two little girls and a husband. We have always kept in touch and get together whenever we can. No sex involved anymore, just good memories and continuing friendship.

Remember, if you do date a provider, that is her job. Never ask about her dates or discuss them. You will only mess things up. Do the things with her that attracted you to her in the first place and never judge. The moment that happens it's over.

And never quibble about money you gave her or lent her, it's gone let it be. You decided at the time you spent the money that was what you wanted to do, so let it be, as the Beattle's song says.

Nice story, and also good advice. Thanks for sharing this with us.

 

[Logicbomb]

I met a sp provider a few years back and we developed a close friendship her English was bad and had no credit history, anyways I get a phone call from her she had no place to go,I flew into Edmonton got her a room at hotel and went looking for apartment to put in my name for her no references, nothing suitable to be found,I ended up buying her a condo which she still lives in to this day taught her to drive and got the ball rolling on permanent citizenship,her work does not bother me and I don't make any issues over it,but I feel better knowing I sincerely helped someone who was down on their luck

 

[id481]

Can you imagine your girlfriend or wife go to work to do happy ending with 4 or five different guy's every day, they touching her, blow job or sex....How you will feel about it?

All this girl know it and they give up to have family (husband+kids)for fast money, fun and sex...

Not really! Extreme April (at Angel Spa now) has kids with her significant other and she is very good at what she does for living. She provides FS, BJ and amazing massage to many clients and returns home every night as a good housewife, so I think it depends.

 

[Bob the Knob]

There are exceptions to every situation. But for the most part, many strippers or escorts I have met, the story usually goes this way:

At first everything is great. The gal meets a guy who treats her like a princess, he feeling like a king. Then the demands of the business, which for her is how she makes a living, make him feel like he is second choice. The things he ignored at first start to irritate him. Every guy hits on his girl, and she flirts (like she always has) with these guys to get better tips and make them feel like she is there for them only.

Then the jealousy sets in. He becomes a part time stalker, showing up after work, making sure she comes home to him. Arguments start and the stress of the business breaks down the barrier of respect.

The ultimate insult to him is when she is home, she refuses sex, because she is tired from her hard work. She doesnt reject him because she doesn't want him, she is truly exhausted.. Once again he takes this personally. Things start to deteriorate until the relationship goes south.

So many ladies I have met have gone through this and while working in the adult entertainment business, finally decide being with one man just isn't worth it. So they do their job, and without anyone to answer to, they can see whoever they want, whenever they want, as they see fit.

Like I said earlier, there are exceptions. I applaud both if their relationship is working. It's.tough enough, without the extra pressures this industry adds, so making it work requires two special individuals.

 

[explorerforever]

Only for Friends With Benefits, nothing else.
The best thing a man can ever ask for: you get a nice caring friend, sex and you don't have to have kids or live with her. What else could you desire?

 

[bingo1]

Lets be lovers, friends and confidantes,
'cause you're all the woman I could want,
Don't nobody need to know
We're F.W.B.

 

[smilebaby]

Yes for some casual relationship implying no commitment, but involving companionship (the friends bit) and physical element like making out, sex, absolutely possible.
For real relationship I will not date her, not at all. Period.