I got that from Water at Orchid and Sammy at One plus One from day one I saw them. My approach was very simple like I did with Daisy of I spa when I first met her at the infamous Unionville spa. All I said was I am looking for someone who kisss or I don't stay. Her answer was so sweet..she said " You are looking at her. "lol. It works very well most of the time. Just be nice and clean, you chances will be good.