all men pay for sex, some way some how, my buddy's gave there ex wife's 1 million each for divorce and also child support on top, and guess what, they don't love each other anymore.
at least at the spa you pay and get what you want, when you want it, you don't have to ask or wait for the girl to be in "the mood" etc...
don't become a domesticated man. it's not fun trust me i know, i was married too, and have kids etc....
enjoy life bro.