How much do you tip?

[2rontow]

How much do you guys tip on average?

Also do you tip before you begin or after it's over. I hear some people tip before because if the masseuse seee a big tip that's when she'll give extras like BBBJ or FS, is this true?

 

[Gwailo]

Expect to tip $80 for a jackhammer hj at Shrangri-la. The greedy girls will mention this before the deed. A real ripoff and mood killer.

 

[DrescoC]

I would tip $50 for bls and bbbj. Pretty standard I think. Not that I have got many bjs at MPs. Only got one recently. That one did not even ask. She got on her knees and just started. And she never even asked for tip when I was exiting. But did give her one.

I never tip if I get DATY or finger her but would if bj/bls part of session. Don't know if some guys tip for DATY sessions.
I figure if I pleasure her which I love to do (and the helps to get me off) and she gets several orgasms from it then why should she get tipped for experiencing the pleasure she got from me. I have many attendants complimenting me and saying how their legs have been left shaking.

 

[Ursus]

For escorts, which is normally the route I take, $20 if the girl's attitude and service are good.

For MPAs, I just ask what their rate is, inluding FS, and pay them that amount. If we negotiate $140 for FS, I pay $140 and get FS.

Sometimes, with escorts, if the girl goes to dinner with me or lets me stay an extra hour, I will give them bigger tips or some other compensation upon future visits.

 

[slipslidealways]

I only tip if the session was really good. $40 - $100 depending on what is offered and how sensual the session is. $40 is usually for a really good session that skirts the edge of limits but still rocks my world. Above that is for any extras that are given. If the session was just normal, no tip.

 

[2rontow]

For escorts, which is normally the route I take, $20 if the girl's attitude and service are good.

For MPAs, I just ask what their rate is, inluding FS, and pay them that amount. If we negotiate $140 for FS, I pay $140 and get FS.

Sometimes, with escorts, if the girl goes to dinner with me or lets me stay an extra hour, I will give them bigger tips or some other compensation upon future visits.

I'm a bit confused. So I'm going to Muse, there's $40 door fee and $80 fee to the masseuse. When you're saying you tip $140 does that mean $80 fee + $60 or $80 fee + $140 for FS?

 

[LostInnocence]

There are completely different tipping structures, depending on where you go.

If you go to a holistic spa, you're going to pay $40 for a 30-minute room, and then you'll negotiate with the girl for the rest. Maybe $80 for body slide, or $120 for FS, but it depends on the place, the girl, and you.

If you go to a massage parlour, like Premier, you're going to pay reception for the room and the girl's fee, which includes the VIP massage (naked people, touching, happy ending). If that satisfies you, no special tip is required. She's made her $100 already. If she's amazing you can give her $20 or $40. (I gave Sarah $50 when I saw her.) If you want extras, then that's going to be extra. At Premier, standard is $50 for her mouth and $100 for full service. That's if she'll do it at all, because many of them don't. Some are known for charging more. Other places might have different price points. I think it costs a lot more in Brampton, and fewer provide.

If you go to an escort with an agency, your extras are included in the fee. You get FS covered by your fee. You're free to tip on top if you want, but it's up to you. I gave Arya $50 once. (She's my avatar.)

If you go to an independent escort, or SP, her fee suffices, and she isn't expecting a tip on top, but again, if you have a really good time, you can tip.

I don't follow the semi-legit places well enough and Krayjee's threads are too long. I think you tip $40 for a happy ending unless you want to touch her a lot, in which case it'll be $50 or $60.

 

[2rontow]

There are completely different tipping structures, depending on where you go.

If you go to a holistic spa, you're going to pay $40 for a 30-minute room, and then you'll negotiate with the girl for the rest. Maybe $80 for body slide, or $120 for FS, but it depends on the place, the girl, and you.

If you go to a massage parlour, like Premier, you're going to pay reception for the room and the girl's fee, which includes the VIP massage (naked people, touching, happy ending). If that satisfies you, no special tip is required. She's made her $100 already. If she's amazing you can give her $20 or $40. (I gave Sarah $50 when I saw her.) If you want extras, then that's going to be extra. At Premier, standard is $50 for her mouth and $100 for full service. That's if she'll do it at all, because many of them don't. Some are known for charging more. Other places might have different price points. I think it costs a lot more in Brampton, and fewer provide.

If you go to an escort with an agency, your extras are included in the fee. You get FS covered by your fee. You're free to tip on top if you want, but it's up to you. I gave Arya $50 once. (She's my avatar.)

If you go to an independent escort, or SP, her fee suffices, and she isn't expecting a tip on top, but again, if you have a really good time, you can tip.

I don't follow the semi-legit places well enough and Krayjee's threads are too long. I think you tip $40 for a happy ending unless you want to touch her a lot, in which case it'll be $50 or $60.

Are you just supposed to straight up ask her before the session if she offers extras?

 

[LostInnocence]

I'm not an expert on this... some people ask really early. Some wait until "the flip."

The girls have been asked very many times. They won't be embarrassed. Be polite, and be prepared to tip. Being groomed, scrubbed, and polite goes a long way.

I have heard a few people saying that they said no at first and then changed their minds... but no means no unless she does.

 

[Dotanuki]

If I get a good massage, I'll tip them 20, no extras expected. If it's a regular that I frequent, I'll tip her upfront not a problem. Extras are negotiable after the massage is done. Seems to be the standard everywhere regardless of MP type (Holistic or semi-legit).

 

[Ursus]

I'm a bit confused. So I'm going to Muse, there's $40 door fee and $80 fee to the masseuse. When you're saying you tip $140 does that mean $80 fee + $60 or $80 fee + $140 for FS?

I don't normally go to the structured, higher end spas. I go into the average spa, such as Bo Bo or LuLu Villa and I pick the girl I want and negotiate the menu and the price, in TOTAL. I don't worry or care what they say is the door fee + room fee + extra fees. I just tell them what I want and I negotiate a price for everything included. I then pay them that amount and proceed to have fun. If I have a very good time, I might give them an extra $20, but in general, I usually just pay once and then leave after the session.

 

[Ursus]

Are you just supposed to straight up ask her before the session if she offers extras?

Yes. Ask her while you are sitting on the massage table, fully clothed. Be ready to walk if she doesn't give you what you want. If you wait until the flip and until she grabs and is holding onto your cock, you will pay extra and you will agree to receive less service. Because, she has the advantage at that point. Negotiate in the beginning and you will get more for less. But, don't low ball her so that she feels unmotivated to service you. These girls aren't there because they love sex and want to fuck ugly, old, bald men for the fun of it. Arguing over $20 isn't worth it and the standard rates are more likely to be agreed upon as opposed to any attempt at trying to get a $120 session for, say, $80 or less. Its not a garage sale that you are at. You are paying this girl to have sexytime with you that she normally would not agree to. So, you have to pay her enough money to make her motivated to give you a good time. No one wants to be bargained with so much so that it makes them feel unattractive and unappreciated.

 

[2rontow]

Yes. Ask her while you are sitting on the massage table, fully clothed. Be ready to walk if she doesn't give you what you want. If you wait until the flip and until she grabs and is holding onto your cock, you will pay extra and you will agree to receive less service. Because, she has the advantage at that point. Negotiate in the beginning and you will get more for less. But, don't low ball her so that she feels unmotivated to service you. These girls aren't there because they love sex and want to fuck ugly, old, bald men for the fun of it. Arguing over $20 isn't worth it and the standard rates are more likely to be agreed upon as opposed to any attempt at trying to get a $120 session for, say, $80 or less. Its not a garage sale that you are at. You are paying this girl to have sexytime with you that she normally would not agree to. So, you have to pay her enough money to make her motivated to give you a good time. No one wants to be bargained with so much so that it makes them feel unattractive and unappreciated.

Does the fact that I'm 19 and in good shape change anything? Will the MPAs be more willing for FS and lower rates considering the younger age?

 

[LostInnocence]

I agree with Ursus (how many times have I said that) in that arguing over $20 is not worth the hassle. If you haggle down, you'll get what you pay for.

 

[LostInnocence]

Does the fact that I'm 19 and in good shape change anything? Will the MPAs be more willing for FS and lower rates considering the younger age?

Haha. No. They are professionals, doing this for the money.

 

[Ursus]

I doubt your looks with make a difference. These girls service 100s of men each year. Some service more than one thousand men each year. Although you might be in the top 10% of handsome men, each year some of these girls have met 50 - 100 guys that are just as good - or better - than you are.

Also, most of these girls have a bigger plan for their lives that doesn't include what they do in the spa. So, they separate their spa activity from their personal lives and don't want to mix the two environments.

If you go into the spa and try to come onto them too strongly - asking them out and requesting their phone numbers and personal details - they will shut down quickly and won't want to service you very well. They really don't want to give you sexytime, but they do so because they want your money.

Sex workers love money, not the clients they service to get that money. They are not your friend or your love interest. They are just a sex worker.

 

[2rontow]

I doubt your looks with make a difference. These girls service 100s of men each year. Some service more than one thousand men each year. Although you might be in the top 10% of handsome men, each year some of these girls have met 50 - 100 guys that are just as good - or better - than you are.

Also, most of these girls have a bigger plan for their lives that doesn't include what they do in the spa. So, they separate their spa activity from their personal lives and don't want to mix the two environments.

If you go into the spa and try to come onto them too strongly - asking them out and requesting their phone numbers and personal details - they will shut down quickly and won't want to service you very well. They really don't want to give you sexytime, but they do so because they want your money.

Sex workers love money, not the clients they service to get that money. They are not your friend or your love interest. They are just a sex worker.

Okay understood. Thanks for the advice, much appreciated!

 

[papaya]

just remember, you do not have to take their suggestions. you don't need to take mine either. Personally, 20 HJ is good enough. If its a massage of 60 minutes that includes a HJ without touching, 40 bucks is fine. If the massage is shitty and lasted only for 20 minutes, 20 bucks is fine.

It is your money, you can tip as much as you want. Just don't be pressured into thinking you have to tip a certain amount.

 

[Ursus]

Don't ever place a sex worker above yourself. Remember, a sex worker is just a sex worker.

If you can't introduce her to your Mother, then she isn't worth losing sleep over.

Btw, I do introduce sex workers to my Mother. Angela has met my Mother and so has numerous other sex workers. My Mom loved Angela.

Everytime I go to Scarborough, my Mother will ask me: 'Are you going to see Angela?'

 

[Flatulent Fox]

Does the fact that I'm 19 and in good shape change anything? Will the MPAs be more willing for FS and lower rates considering the younger age?

If you're young and attractive, go bang some civilians for free, and leave the sex workers to us old, bald, fat fucks

Seriously though, it might make her more willing to do extras, but I doubt it will change her rates.

As for tipping, I don't tip if the session is strictly within MP limits. I'll tip $20-$40 if I get DFK, DATY, or BLS. For BJ or FS I'll ask her rate and either pay it or turn it down. I never negotiate for the reasons others mentioned. If she doesn't mention a rate, I'll tip the standard rate for the spa, e.g. $50 for BBBJ at Premier.

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