I assume there must be different ladies there from time to time. The lady I reviewed was definitely not 45ish, I had a great time. It's absolutely is NOT AMPville, but it's much better than the cross your fingers and hope for something more than a rub places in Garland. I think all places are YMMV, and you get out of it what you put in. Treat a lady nice, compliment her appearance and technique and make her feel that you appreciate her services, and in my experience it serves me well. We all tend to want to work harder for someone who appreciates us, Right??