me and this girl are going to have a chat with her current boyfriend in 2

[Otakutom]

hours...i need help? i have been talking to this girl on facebook...recently i told her my feelings for her and she soon realised she had strong feelings for me...she has been going out with this guy for about a month now and i have been keeping a close eye on status' she tags him in...every single one of them has led to him changing it into something sexual...this just infuriates me as she wants someone that truly loves and cares about her and i can clearly tell by how these status' end that he only wants one thing...i told her that she deserves someone better and told her my true feelings for her...she said she would break it off with him but this morning she said she wanted to have a three way message conversation...i said okay and she gets online within 2 hours maybe less...she told me she fell in love with him because he was nice and he opened up to her and told her his dad died or something...if you ask me one of the reasons for loving someone because they said a family member died is not a valid reason...she would have asked me out before she met him but she said she was scared of what i'd say. she even said to me last night over Facebook chat that im nicer to her...she is currently on her...well you know...so her emotions are abit crazy, and she is also naturally bipolar...to be honest this doesnt bother me one bit because i love her...more than that trash ever will...i know it seems pathetic to ask on this site...but i havent been in this kind of situation before...i need her to see through the covers he has put over her eyes and tell him to leave her alone...any ideas on how i could do this without possibly angering her or the guy?
1 hour now im really nervous
she has bipolar disorder

 

[Amy]

Naturally bipolar?

 

[LucyIntheSky]

Well.. idk. I would say to just stay her friend, and let her find out herself but I know if you really love her, you don't wanna see her get hurt. and since you only have an hour.. Seriously just say exactly how you feel because you have a right to your feelings.

also..
If she completely ignores how you feel or shows that she doesn't give a crap and would rather waste her time on this guy, then move on. she may not be worth your time. guard your heart and don't let anyone play with your emotions.

 

[Emy]

Let her know! Tell the boy you really don't think it's appropriate the way he's treating her. But tell her it's her choice and she's allowed to take what road she want's, and your not going to step into that and force her to change. If she's really moody, just stay calm and kind. Don't set her off, don't offend the boyfriend, and be kind. when you leave, wish them good life/love and then say bye. Show your kind but don't be rude or a suck up!
Hope this helped!??

 

[Abi Shaw]

Im afraid what ever you say if most likely going to anger her at this time haha :'D
Why dont you try waiting a bit till shes off her...you know or in a happy mood. Then sit her down and tell her about your problems face to face

 

[Tracy]

If she truely wants to end things with him then it will work out for you. If not then you need to let her go. You will find out soon. Good luck. Let her do the talking. DO NOT YELL AT HER BOYFRIEND OR HER. or call him names, that will just make it worse or bad or whatever.

 

[Scary-Screamo Chick]

just forget about her, that's my advice.