Need advice

[Johnny O]

Been dating a wonderful woman for a few months and she just told me she is in the massage business.. I am struggling with this since I never suspected anything . Has anyone gone thru this before ?

 

[Notorious71]

Been dating a wonderful woman for a few months and she just told me she is in the massage business.. I am struggling with this since I never suspected anything . Has anyone gone thru this before ?

I would run as it will drive you crazy thinking about what she is doing. I can also go see her and report back

 

[qinging]

Been dating a wonderful woman for a few months and she just told me she is in the massage business.. I am struggling with this since I never suspected anything . Has anyone gone thru this before ?

It's either you or the other dicks.....then you will find out just how wonderful she is.

 

[Devguy1]

Run! It will drive you out of your mind with worry and jealousy.

 

[Voland]

Been dating a wonderful woman for a few months and she just told me she is in the massage business.. I am struggling with this since I never suspected anything . Has anyone gone thru this before ?

Fuck her and dump her.

Forget about it.

Then say NO to yourself for any further communication.

 

[Roman]

Been dating a wonderful woman for a few months and she just told me she is in the massage business.. I am struggling with this since I never suspected anything . Has anyone gone thru this before ?

If she is that wonderful a woman, why were you asking about visiting mpa's for the first time about a month ago?

 

[topo112]

If you’re an alpha male, who has never paid for pusy, then run away as it will torture you since you’re not used to sharing. But if you’re a nerdy, beta male then go for it, where else will you get a girl of this quality? Consider yourself a lucky man!

 

[krayjee]

Been dating a wonderful woman for a few months and she just told me she is in the massage business.. I am struggling with this since I never suspected anything . Has anyone gone thru this before ?

If you are dating for fun. Enjoy the ride but if you are thinking of marrying her as a life long partner , a big No No.
On the other hand, if you met her at the spa and become BF GF..its a different story. I have seen some helping out to get more business for her and some sitting at the front lobby while the GF was performing sex acts with guys after guys. The worst one was you with the girl in the room knowing her BF was sitting at the front. Just wonder what kind of guy can put up with that.

 

[Hank]

Been dating a wonderful woman for a few months and she just told me she is in the massage business.. I am struggling with this since I never suspected anything . Has anyone gone thru this before ?

You never mentioned what type of massage business. Could be rmt Sutherland Chan massage... Did you ask where she works?

 

[Hangdai]

You never mentioned what type of massage business. Could be rmt Sutherland Chan massage... Did you ask where she works?

Maybe she sells tables, oils, disposable table covers.

 

[Johnny O]

Maybe she sells tables, oils, disposable table covers.

 

[Johnny O]

No. She made it clear what she does and wanted to tell the truth and not hide anything because things were getting serious .
We never met at a passage place as I never ended up going to one just enquired on here in the past.
Having a hard time with this just wanted some feedback.

 

[Hank]

No. She made it clear what she does and wanted to tell the truth and not hide anything because things were getting serious .
We never met at a passage place as I never ended up going to one just enquired on here in the past.
Having a hard time with this just wanted some feedback.

Do a search on this site if you know her spa name amd if there are any reviews of her. Decide if you can accept her occupation. If not then move on or just have fun till it expires

 

[Hangdai]

No. She made it clear what she does and wanted to tell the truth and not hide anything because things were getting serious .
We never met at a passage place as I never ended up going to one just enquired on here in the past.
Having a hard time with this just wanted some feedback.

It’s good she was open with it, instead of hiding it as long as she could.
I’m a big believer that women can separate true feelings of love from any acts of a sexual nature, whereas men, not really.

Most ladies that I’ve gotten close to have always maintained they would never look for true love while working in the biz.

 

[ChubbyGuy]

If you really like her and want to continue dating her, ask about her future plans. Does she plan on being an MA for the unforeseeable future?

If I got an answer like "I don't know...." then I'd just be friends and keep in tough for down the road (like years).

 

[Johnny O]

It’s good she was open with it, instead of hiding it as long as she could.
I’m a big believer that women can separate true feelings of love from any acts of a sexual nature, whereas men, not really.

Most ladies that I’ve gotten close to have always maintained they would never look for true love while working in the biz.

 

[Johnny O]

We never met thru the biz and don't know how to deal with this .
Never saw this coming

 

[qinging]

We never met thru the biz and don't know how to deal with this .
Never saw this coming

Get out of it....if it is meant to last it will by other means....it won't get better as it stands.

 

[Mulva]

Does she offer daty? Lol sorry Johnny O couldn’t resist.


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[Johnny O]

Does she offer daty? Lol sorry Johnny O couldn’t resist.


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