Cincy2 said:
I am a 36yr old male that is looking into going to Massage School. I have checked out a couple of schools, and I think I have found the one for me to go to. Reading different post on here, it sounds like it is going to be tough with all the studying, but well worth it. Is there anything I should be aware of before I commit to the investment of becoming a Massage Therapist ?
I agree with BJB, and I think I can start it off
First, research the field, just like it looks like you're doing now. Read through the threads on this board; they will give you the equivalent of several years' experience in just a few months (at least, that's what I feel happened to me!) LOL (I went from feeling green to feeling not-so-green rather quickly.)
Second, and this isn't to plant pessimism into your mind, but what my husband (who is also an LMT) has run into some old prejudices and attitudes toward male therapists. He has found it a little more challenging to get clients solely due to his plumming. If this is true where you live also, simply approach each client with gentle confidence and be aware of all boundary-related issues such as draping and how you phrase things. (You'd be amazed at how different your meaning is from someone else's interpretation!)
If you're going into practice for yourself, understand that it takes time to build it up. You may want to consider working someplace that has an established clientele at least part-time and building your own clientele on the side. If you don't have a CPA to help you with write-offs and avoid/handle tax audits, get one. And save your receipts!
Also, if you're just starting your research and don't already know this, keep in mind that traditional income-potential number-crunching (8 hrs x fee = $$$ per day!!!) is NOT going to apply to massage therapy. I (along with most) consider a full day to be anywhere from 3-5 sessions, and you probably won't be that busy to start.
Last but not least, you MUST enter this with both your head and your heart. Clients can tell if their MT is just in it for the money, or if the MT is mentally preoccupied; it shows, and it's tough to hide! Stay lose, stay focused on the client, remain aware of the boundaries, keep in touch with your clients' reactions (verbal or not) to the massage, and listen to their chief complaints. Be very communicative. People will come in twice a year and expect you to fix all their problems in a single 1-hour session. This is simply not possible. So be honest with them and give it to them straight--they may or may not like your answers/advice, but they'll thank you and respect you for your honesty.
Oh and yet another thing...STUFF in this career comes and goes, whether it's clients, income, etc. Your experience will morph and change, and every day will bring something new. Your client base will morph and change as well. Your knowledge base will expand and evolve. Never let it get stale! Always learn something new. Go to seminars, weekend workshops, or other classes. Schedule yourself days off. Stay fresh, stay committed. You will form deep connections with your clients, and vice versa. You'll get just as much out of this career as you put into it!
Hope that's a start
Hugs,
~Jyoti