Last fall I took an extended business trip to LA. After all the work related part of the trip was finished I indulged myself in one of those "new age" dakini goddess tantra programs. I had set the appointments up in advance before leaving for LA. Over three days at three hours per day we did the bath ceremony, relaxation, orgasm control (edging) thing and finished off each of the sessions with the aptly named " male sacred spot" massage.
I am most assuredly not one of these new age, hug the world types but that whole sexual relaxation thing they do is amazing. There is nothing to compare to it in any of the places in this city . I have not tried the girl in the annex and there is another dakini , oriental lady Lotus, who just doesn't do it for me appearance wise. The Goddess whose studio I went to was a very attractive and sensuous person who by the time she finished the bath ritual and had you on her table had you in such a state that the world could have ended and I wouldn't care. After the longgggg teasingggg buildup by the time we got to the "sacred spot" spot part I was so keyed up that while slowly doing the prostate she had me flopping around on the table like a fish on the dock. That is pretty much the best way to describe it. When she finally lets you release you feel drained and quite frankly just lie there limp for awhile. No pun intended, both your whole body and penis are LIMP. So to answer one of the questions, if it is done properly the last thing you would want to do would be drive home to an eager spouse. You would have some explaining to do.
There is no form of traditional sexual contact in these sessions but with the whole erotic body contact concentrated senses thing going on you hardly care.
If anyone else has attended these types of sessions it would be interesting to have your thoughts posted.