Your not talking about Jean Luc, owner of another escort agency are you Sampson? It's been my experience when things get that bad between the 'lovers' that it usually takes two to tango before all that hate develops. I don't know if Sampson is talking about Jean Luc, but a similar thing happened to him, but I remember from his writings he demanded his hooker girl friend get out of the business, and it seemed like he wanted to put her lazy daughter to work as an escort, and got on her for being lazy and not working, even going so far as locking the TV so it would not work, pissing her off, and befriending a criminal pimp like guy who was fuckng his hooker girlfriend and maybe the daughter too? Then in the end they all stole from him.
You hang out with people like this and things like that will happen to you. But I don't see the problem hanging out with your favorite bar girl at your apartment saving money on hotels expenses.
The only thing I can say Mike Dude look at your expenses and if you are going to TJ every week then maybe having an apartment would be cheaper?
I do agree with the other guys that you may have to pay more then $200 dollars, and get a more secure apartment and get it barely furnished with only the basics, and maybe a cheaper older TV that even when working are worth only $5 dollars as people are switching to thin flat screen TVs.