Should i tell my mom my dad's using porn and chat sites?

[sabrina p]

am 25 years old, but that's really besides the point. I'm still living at home working my way through college. About three weeks ago I found that my dad has been going to porn sites. Two times previous I've deleted browse history...then when I checked it again there were more porn sites. My mom and I just went on a week long girls trip when I came home I found that he has still been using the porn sites but now even chatting rooms and adult mate rooms. My mom all week has talked about how she can't wait to get back home to him and how she hates being away from him. How do I tell her what I've found out? It's going to break her heart! My dad is 63 and she is 54...so they're both up in age! Please help my heart is breaking and I have no idea what to do. I feel like I'm lying to her by keeping the secret, but I know it will be a horrible fight if I tell her! We come from a Christian family so I'd appreciate Christian advice. I said I caught him...what I meant was that I went to websites and saw them in the browser

 

[Satan's Angel]

Maybe you could talk to your dad about it first? Give him the chance to explain himself and come clean to your mom. Are you sure it was your father? You don't have any other male relatives who could be using your computer? If you know it is your dad and you can't ask him about it, you should try and tell your mom. Just explain that you found the chat room website in the history and you think it was your dad.

Explain that it may have been a mistake that he clicked on the site, but if it pops up again in the history, let her know. I am trying to think of what I would do in this situation and I would probably mention to my dad that I found an adult chat room website in my browsers history and I would like an explanation. Then I would mention that if he didn't tell my mother, I would.

 

[Kellayyy]

Didn't you just ask this question??

Like I said before just tell her you need to talk to her.

And tell her the truth.

Do what your heart tells you.

 

[ASHLEY T]

Yes i think you should tell your mom... its kinda like his cheating.