Signals and Suggestions

[Kara S]

Sometimes the Massuese seems a bit distant..this may be general caution on her part or perhaps she is not willing to take any risk based on your appearance etc..

Look for subtle ( or not so subtle) signals from the provider:For example, If she mounts you when you are face down in order to apply more pressure on your back , then I think you may assume more is available. Let your hands wander over her feet and calves to see what happens.Of course, you could ask her to mount you, so she can " rest her feet and legs"..very thoughtful of you.

If you want more, use hand signals to indicate what you want;As there may be someone(maybe the boss) listening or within hearing range, she does not want to be overheard.1. for HJ make an open fist and move it vertically.2 For a BJ make an open fist and move it up and down in front of your mouth. 3.For FS, take an index finger from one hand and push it rythmically through the closed thumb and forefinger of the other hand.

If you like the girl and not the place try asking if she accepts private clients..you may get her telephone number, who knows..if she meets your privately you may get a lot more and she keeps all the money. JohnD

 

[Hong Kong Mike]

Is there any place in Montreal where you already tried this
signals tips and it worked?? If so... can you give the places?

I never thought about this.... since I use the hear whispering
and tell the girl what I want...

 

[Baden]

Hi Guys...thanks for your questions..I remember using these hand signals 40+ years ago when I was young chatting with friends, so they are not new, really.They mimic the action. Using them avoids any possible recorded 'evidence' that could be used against anyone.A simple nod of the head can answer yes or no....only the price needs to be spoken.I would not write anything on paper of course, but you could write the $ amount in the air.I use all this to negotiate terms etc.

As far as which parlors one might succeed..I would say anywhere, as these girls are not stupid and need to protect themselves (and so do you).

I rarely ask for private sessions from girls who work at legitimate clinics, unless I like them, have had several visits and have found an 'angle' ......and I use extreme discretion.

Here is another view for you..I think some of the foreign girls are not legal residents in Canada and have to work underground. They need to survive and employers are underpaying them..so,if they can get say $50-100 from a private session they retain all of that and would have to work for 5-10 hours doing massage only..my estimates.
I hope this helps. Best of luck. JohnD

 

[Brit]

Here are some more afterthoughts: I suspect these so-called "overpriced" places employ out-call girls who use the parlor to find new clients..it is a perfect screening process. These girls know what they can earn on a net basis for an out-call, so they charge more, because they feel they are worth more.
Another thing,most of these girls are 'physical' types, so they enjoy giving and receiving massages, otherwise they would rapidly become blaisee ( spelling).ciao JohnD

 

[Parker : )]

Hi FD.. I presume you are an 'explorer'..judging by your stage name. No offence taken in any form.

By nature, I am very very cautious and always proceed slowly and diplomatically in all circumstances.I treat others the way I like to be treated: quietly and with respect. So, I don't barge in the door using hand signals and demanding service. In my experience, there is more to be gained for me, by being myself.

I am persuing massages and extras for enjoyment and to benefit and maintain my health.Sex , to me , as a an un-attached gentleman, is about health and pleasure not morality or loyalty...which are important issues to me.
Happy exploring. JohnD

 

[gribbs100]

Hey John, as i sit in my office looking at the world go by,and do my regular eforum.xxx check, i can't help but say BRAVO to your comments. altho i am an "attached gentleman", and i use the word gentleman loosely, sex is definitely about health, pleasure and enjoyment. we are extremely fortunate to have at our disposal both the means and the venues to satisfy all of our needs, and they should definitely be approached in a respectful fashion. as i said in an earlier post, complicity is as important to a provider, as it is to us. these mp's are human, and altho they are motivated by financial needs, i believe that interracting with them at a decent level, as opposed to treating them as objects will only serve to enhance our experiences with them.

cigarman

 

[Gabbie]

Thanks Cigarman....As an older gentleman, I am not an apparent threat to these ladies, so my mileage may be better than average, even without pressing myself on them,so to speak.

In my mind, the massage world is just a microcosm of life and these girls are females primarily.So ,I expect the usual type of initial reluctance, but once they trust you, you are 'home'..All of this assumes they are un-attached and not driven by drugs or some phsycotic or neurotic problems etc. Assuming they are normal and just trying to make a living , they are looking for mileage themselves..I like to keep everything low key..decompressed. Ciao JohnD

 

[bleh^^]

OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CIGARMAN

 

[Pompal 09.]

FD, thnks for your post. its great to know that there are actually some of us out there who still value people and their needs.

cigarman

 

[Green Eyes]

hey FD. only as long as they are sincere.

Ccigarman