Attendant Arousal - Fact or Fiction

[mIsTy bEeBeE]

Rusty, you have been the most shameless promoter of a few spas that this board has ever seen. I am aghast that you would call someone else for promoting on this board.








Angelina, as Rusty mentioned previously in this thread, PR is about bullshit, but it has to be believable bullshit. To succeed in this you should follow his lead.

This whole drama seems to be about the fact that Angelina has pissed in Rusty's cornflakes by thinking she can become the reigning PR King/Queen on massageplanet.net...

Angelina, i mean no offense, as I do not really think that you have been a shameless self promoter....

 

[seductress]

Speak to any MPA.The majority of them have come to the conclusion that massageplanet.net members are exactly that. How else do you explain all the dfk,bbbj,daty threads?

Your classy and upscale only claim is getting stronger by the minute, eh? Heheheheh

 

[zbdblues]

Angelina, where exactly did I insult you?

All I said is that you're lying about saying you like all of your clients.

It seems to me that you're the one who started with the personal insults.

PS You're really classy and upscale.

 

[robert p]

Aww....that's a cute story. Nicely put. That's what I mean....that's the
connection I'm talking about. Especially the personal info part. Most mpa's
don't make it a habit of talking about their personal life....okay..bits here and
there, but actual in depth conversations about themselves or their lives. She trusted
you and respected your input.
Your there for the massage and company of course, but the mind to mind conversations, and the 15 min. past the session time just sitting on the table yapping about anything and everything because it's just someone you connect with. And may
I point out the down side of all that, you know you should be working, as the time
passes other mpa's are taking sessions you might of had, you may get in dutch with your boss, but you just enjoy the conversation, the short break from all the
clients you had no real connection with, (fake or otherwise), and enjoy this talk
with this person.
And the greatest connection of all, when he has just read your mind, and he still realizes exactly what business you are in and where he stands in it for that moment, and says, "It was nice seeing you again, take care."

 

[Judy M]

........at least I think it is simple IMHO.

Instant attraction happens everywhere else & so I don't see why it can't happen in a MPA/Client scenario.

Now the problem is that we, as clients, almost always wish our encounters with MPAs as being instant attraction & that the sessions or experiences are as real as the Real McCoy. Because we are dealing with acts that..........you know where I am getting, we often lost track if they are indeed fake or real.

Example: I was regularly visiting this MPA about 3/4 years ago & I have always opted the BS option, no questions ask. It was so routine it's like going to your regular restaurant & the waitress will just bring you the food that you wanted without asking. Not only the experiences & chemistry were top-notch everytime I visit, we practically talk about everything. I was so sure I was ready to ask her out for a date. Then came this one time I was $20 short. Just when I was going to tell her that I will come back with the money, without a blink of an eye she said, "oh alright, we will go with the reverse then". I was so shocked but then I realized right there that I was in the dreamland all along. Never went back again.

So my conclusion is YES, it happens but if you can recall more than your fingers can count them ( no pun intended ), maybe you are lying to yourself.

Instant attraction happens everywhere else & so I don't see why it can't happen in a MPA/Client scenario. However, the frequency that happens everywhere else less about ninety percent, would be about the frequency you would experience it in a MPA/Client scenario.

I hope I am not getting way too off topic...........

 

[Troy]

It's a job and and after a while MPAs become numb from all the BS. Some will try and fake it and some will ignore it. It is a rare bird that really gets into it and gets off.

 

[gravitate]

How am I being disprespctful to women? All I'm asking you to do is admit that you were lying when you said ; A) You've enjoyed every client you've been with. B) You don't have a screening process when it comes to a initial appointment with a guy.

 

[BlowBubblesNotBombs]

As one who LOVEs to cuddle and carress.. I really don't expect that at a MPA, and I caress a bit when doing nude reverse by how I massage her body (Esalen techniques). But I also enjoy the handshake etc of MPA also.

I probably do more cuddling and caressing while sitting with dancers at many of the strip clubs than in MP, other than my massaging them on the NR. And of course with escorts, although I enjoy the cuddle and caress if she enjoys it just as much as the sex.

But I don't have to have her share inner toughts etc... I enjoy expressing caring tenderness just by good touch as a wonderful human interaction in itself without any expectations of any relationship etc.

 

[alok c]

Spooning is so much more gratifying than dfk, daty, bag piping, etc. I think you're going to see a lot more "ISO of an MPA that is a great cuddler", and a lot less "ISO of an MPA that dfk's" threads in the near future.

My friend Carlos used to be all about dfk'ing with MPA's until he developed cold sores, and was known around his office as "Cold sore Carlos". Carlos now goes to MP's to share his feelings and get in some quality cuddling time. As Carlos said "All it took was one cold sore to make me realize how yucky and gross dfk'ing high mileage MPA's truly is. From now on I'm just gonna cuddle and get to know my MPA as a person. Thanks for showing me the way, Rusty".

It's touching stories like Carlos' that make me realize how we can improve MP's. Instead of badgering them for all of these yucky things we can show show them how caring and sensitive we are by cuddling and talking about what we think the new season of Degrassi High will have to offer. By doing so, they will actually enjoy seeing us.

Cuddling and sharing our feelings instead of asking for yucky high mileage = Them being happier at work = Us being happy they are happy = An improved environment = A greater time for everyone involved.

 

[cArTeR]

Translation - I will see anyone.



So, you're screening process is common sense?

That's not a screening process.




Once again, why do they instantly have class because they want you to whack them off in a sauna. You're not going to be spending an evening at the opera together, followed by an algonquin round table discussion.

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Translation - I have no answer to your question, so i'll take the "none of your business" route to get out of it.



How do I have trouble debating with you? You're answering all of my questions by saying none of your business, and you seem to think that because a guy wants to get whacked off by you in the sauna, makes him instantly classy and upscale.



Doesn't bother me at all. I know they're are plenty of MPA's out there who are beautiful, well spoken, intelligent, funny, etc. Unfortunately for you, you're not one of them.



Doesn't bother me at all. The only things about you that bother me about you is your constantly lying, and not woan enough to admit that you have no initial screening process, and you don't enjoy all of your clients.

 

[Master of Eternity]

My friend also likes to use tender touches, blowing the SPs hair away from her eyes, playing with their earlobes, looking deeply into their eyes for like an eternity. It almost got him banned and charged a couple of times, but for the most part MAs are catching on and are no longer intimidated, especially by the long gazes. I think the tender touching, caressing (Esalen technique) and spooning is the wave of the future. Pillow talk is where it's at. It's safe, more soul-connecting and gratifying. I dread the day MPs will begin to label soft touching and caressing the tantric massage because I somehow think we're going to see a corresponding huge increase in the rates charged. Seems anything labelled "tantric" or spiritual these days entitles you to charge like $400.00 an hour or something. I hope that doesn't happen because that would be sad.

 

[Leo]

& realized I might have fallen off track about the topic but I was really answering Red's question on "Have you met an mpa you know, or continue to see, who you know definately enjoys you and likewise? No acting required"

.....hope that helps!

 

[Tom Graphics]

But............a few have felt true arousal, you know, the shaking etc., or at least convinced me that it happened, and as long as I'm convinced, I'm happy.....The key is, try a repeat, see what happens.

 

[Semra]

I figured the same thing, but just needed confirmation from a well versed MPA such as yourself. Next time I see her I'm gonna finally pop the big question and ask her to move into my dad's basemement with me.

Ok, here's my next question.

Do you think my MPA would be creeped out or touched if I showed up to my next session wearing a t shirt with her pic on it?

Thanks RS, you're the best around, no one could ever keep you down.

 

[R4u]

Do you realize how phony you sound when you say you've never had a client you don't enjoy?





Do you realize how stupid it makes you look when you don't admit that you've never seen a client you haven't enjoyed?



You don't have a screening process. We've already established that.




I'm not angry at all. I actually find it quite humorus that you won't admit to not enjoying all your clients.



Not at all. I just feel that it's silly tthat you won't admit to not having a client you haven't enjoyed.





Like I said earlier, I know MPA's that are sexy,smart,funny,etc. It just seems to me that you're trying awfully hard to put yourself in their league, when in reality, you're nothing special.

 

[Unholy]

THAT'S IT!!

That's what I want for breakfast. Cornflakes. Thanks slowandeasy.

 

[Starry]

You never know though, some spas have a strict policy against 'cutting deals' so that you aren't being unfair to the business of other girls...even for regulars...so maybe it was a case of this? Not that I'm saying she was 100% right, or that you are 100% right, I don't know either of you or the whole situation...just bringing some other insight to it, perhaps

 

[chellithangam]

Hehehehehehehehehehehehe

So, miss classy and upscale finally admitted to not liking all of her clients. Good for you, miss classy and upscale. Doesn't it feel classy and upscale to tell the truth?

 

[Bone Idle]

All this talk of spooning reminds me of a wonderful story about Vladimir Nabokov who taught at Cornell University in Upstate New York after he came to the USA. Nabokov was a great linguist but one day in the Cornell staff lounge he overheard two of his colleagues discussing the behaviour of students during lectures. One of them complained that two students were spooning at the back of his class that day. This was a new word to Nabokov and he asked what it meant. Affter it had been explained to him, he said, "Ah! Now I understand. And I do not find it surprising. In fact, you are lucky they weren't forking."

 

[Doctrine Man]

If you enjoy being wrestled, pinned down, and raped by me and
Violet (bring those handlebars....oops...I mean pigtails)
then I game. But the flavour of the Jello is irrelevant, I doubt
that's what I would be tasting anyway!