I agree Brother SM, in my line of work I run into all types. Some guys have physical/labor intensive jobs, so most of the week they’re not much to look at. But when they clean up, you can barely recognize them. Then there are some people who really don’t give a shit and are slobs, lol. But even some of the slobs are some of the nicest people I’ve met, very genuine. There’s another thread we’ve both commented on, the YMMV thread started by Brother
@Bustanut and if I’m going to hobby, I put some effort into it. Look and smell good, don’t try to haggle the ladies and most of all, be respectful of any boundaries the lady may have. Small things ensure all parties have a good time