Dating an Asian Massage Girl

[Mary Funez]

Just went back and reread the entire thread.

You know what I see? A lot of opinions and responses to same, along with the usual useless posts.

If there are three or four guys who post about actual experience "dating" an Asian Massage Girl, it's a lot.

You know what I don't see? Details. Just the usual generalizations. I'm the only one who's thrown any details out there.

So, next time someone wants to hammer me about my contributions to this thread, I offer this respsonse: 꺼져 버려!

 

[AbbVanauua]

I'M narrow-minded? That's a good one.

Yeah, this thread is about sharing experiences; not hammering the culture. You must have missed that in the posts below.

When I talk about my wife I'm sharing my experience.

 

[lxeesurh]

I am not really blaming anybody. There's two sides to every story and the ability to get wet doesn't really mean the woman doesn't have any feelings for you. Guys get wet too, a little bit of natural lube comes out and for me that doesn't happen every time we have sex. Should she start thinking maybe I don't have feeling for her just because I didn't make any lube?

I don't have a problem with an escort's current employment. However, that didn't come naturally, it took time to accept it. From my experience, if you have feelings for an escort you're dating, you will feel jealous the first time you see one of her clients.

I didn't mean for this thread to turn negative, but someone said one bad thing and all of a sudden people are acting like I'm attacking their own relationship. If you're in a meaningful relationship with an escort then good for you, alla salute. I wouldn't recommend it for the reasons stated previously but it's not like people on this board would take the advice anyway. So at the very least, be ready for some of the hurdles mentioned.

 

[Downtide]

This thread has taken a direction towards negativity, I enjoyed reading it before.

As far as women getting wet, no need to blame her, as it seems that is what some guys are doing, perhaps she is just not turned on by you, or you just don't treat her well.

Women are women, some have hearts and others don't, if she gives you hers, treat her well. If you are going to hold her current or past employment against her to some degree, why be with her at all.

 

[clepxuwgisniroehc]

When I was in Korea, a woman who smokes is unapproved in society and Korean men will not date a girl who's been with a foreigner. There's a societal belief that foreigners bring diseases or something so the women is tainted. So it is expected that a lot of K-girls do things that are not accepted in society.

Anyway, you've got this narrow minded I must be right mentality. In my experience, not all girls are built like a water sprinkler that can see a dozen guys and still get wet for you. There are a million other reasons why a girl wouldn't get wet, her diet, STD's or just a hormonal imbalance.

This thread is about sharing experiences, not continually talking about your wife and anybody who has a different experience must be some horn dog.

 

[Araz]

You don't love Korean women. You love to fuck them. Big difference. Your bashing of the exotic cuisine tells me as much. When you live on a peninsular nation which has basically been at war throughout its history, you eat anything and everything. Ask the Italians. BTW: I've been to Korea more than once for extended periods. The food is delicious. All of it.

Do some of them smoke too much? Yup. Do some of them have digestive issues? Yup. Etc. Etc. Am I wasting my time with this? Yup.

The women who don't get wet for you see right through you.

My posting history proves I prefer the Korean MILF. Not a single one of them has ever lubed up for me. My wife, pushing 40? No issue, whatsoever.

Stick to your room salon girls and strippers. Dating a massage girl goes way beyond just fucking her. But you don't see that, do you?

 

[Iluvsoccer]

I don't hate Korean women. In fact, I love Korean women which is why I frequent KMPs because they are some of the hottest babes around.

All I said was that the only negative I see in dating a KMP girl is that the sex is less exciting because the average KMP girl is going to get less wet than the average room salon girl or stripper.

I like naturally wet pussies that you can just slide your dick in with minimal foreplay. My original post says as much. Not that I don't like foreplay, it's just more exciting to be able to lick up the juices from an already wet pussy and know that it's wet because the girl is truly excited.

 

[Shay P]

In my case, I'm afraid you're quite wrong. My response was meant to be taken as a joke, nothing more. If it came across differently, then I apologize.

 

[VoryImmosse]

Seeing this post, I'm compelled to respond to the above quote. When I got divorced, I was paying child support to the tune of $300 a week for two kids and all the attendant expenses that come with kids, alimony to the tune of $200 a week, the two kids about to go off to college and no end to the financial BS in sight. That was in 2006. Six years later, I'm finished with child support, alimony and college.

Trouble is, I had to close my business due to the economy and don't make anywhere near as much as I used to. The money never mattered to my wife. Believe it or not, there are girls who actually develop feelings for a customer before the customer develops feelings for the girl. That's how it was in my case. I never imagined hooking up with an AMP girl until the ajima where we met suggested I ask mine out. The rest is history.

Some of the comments below border on the xenophobic.

 

[Oh Na Na]

I wouldn't mind having a Korean gf. I've been to a few massage places (non sexual) and some hj places; i can see why it's easy to establish feelings for a lady. Not all working women are gamblers and drug abusers. I'm sure there are many who are. It's like finding that pink pearl in a clam. I'm sure many have agendas but others seem to be real. I guess you just have to try and see. One I like has a green card so I know her situation between us is not predicated on marriage for immigration.

I have fun and that's what's it about. If that ever stops i would not know what to do. Amps are definetly addicting. My wife wouldn't be happy to share me with my new found friend interest. I don't think the Korean would want to have a broke single boyfriend after my divorce . Anyone that's down on his luck ever make it with an amp girl? I always hear how they only look for the money men. I told the lady I know that I have 3 kids and i'm paying for 1 in college, 1 in med school and the other is in the Air force. Why she wants to be with me is mind boggling. I'm not going anywhere any time soon.

 

[govind]

Well, it's not that I'm taking a holier-than-thou attitude. A lot of what you guys are saying is correct. There is a lot of baggage when you date a working girl. Yup, they like to drink in high style, they probably love to gamble their hard earned cash, they tend to equate sex with $$, the Korean food is what it is -- though that's not specific to kamp girls, it's true a lot of them take odd and potentially harmful laxatives and supplements to aid in their job, etc.

All I'm saying is the girls I've made a connection with, at least, can rise above that in their better moments. The vast majority of girls I've been with have been on a strictly professional basis. But once in a while, I meet one I like more than most and go for it. When that happens, the girls tend to be a bit more than the typical tanned, fake boobed, platinum types.

Some of you seem to be saying that it's just not possible to have a nice, good relationship with a kgirl and I'm just telling you that is not true in all cases.

Fair enough?

 

[BlackSunshine84]

Agreed. Despite all these negativities, we still love fucking these girls.

 

[Bad Ash]

Webspider,vinster. Your hatred for Korean women is quite apparent. This thread like so many has taken a bad turn. Try another hobby since you both despise those you rage about.

 

[JRathboneissexy:)]

I realize this may come off as being a bit hypocritical on a board dedicated to objectifying women, but I think a part of the pushback you're getting is due to the extent to which you're doing the objectifying and the manner in which you are doing it. What you say may well be true in perhaps even a majority of cases, but might it not have been worth asking yourself whether it was worth saying? What exactly is the point other than attention-drawing or self-aggrandizement. Granted I and many others are guilty of the same thing, but sometimes we all cross the line into being unnecessarily demeaning. Just my two cents. As always, feel free to tell me to fuck off or whatever your chosen way of saying the same.

 

[wbfd22]

you forgot kinchi, soju, bimbimbap, dog meat, & preaches religion

 

[Poopypuss]

But you make it sound like a bad thing...!

 

[classmate]

I think it might be because I'm shattering the image of the perfect sexbomb, ha.

There are always exceptions, but the average KMP girl likes to eat chicken feet, chicken anus, pig feet, pig intestines, drink too much alcohol, smoke too much, always has KY or Astroglide handy, uses a lot more Eve than the average woman, uses enemas to shoot laxatives up their assholes, eat colon cleanser medicine, and diarrhea like no tomorrow. And it's not rare to find them having vices, whether it be host bars where they pay guys to entertain them or casinos or drugs.

 

[Shamaje]

Wow, didn't think I'd get such a backlash over something as logical as KMP girls not getting as excited about sex psychologically or biologically compared to a non-working counterpart (meaning girls who are sexual in nature but not with 10 guys a day, aka room salon girls or strippers).

Once you try it, you'll notice there's a regular difference between the two.

 

[kermit the hermit]

I can concur with retired_h_03. Certainly, it can be an awkward challenge, but it is certainly possible to find a genuine relationship with a kamp girl. I've done it several times. Some failed spectacularly! Some were quite good. You can't pigeon hole anybody.

What the heck are we talking about now? Lube? Give me a break. You guys have no idea what you are talking about. Working is one thing, a relationship is something else. No lube required.

 

[lrd00a]

I've seen the cute little lube bottles hidden out of plain sight. Tho not all use them. Some enter prelubed to the room after 5-10 minute primp and prep supplies wait. Others love what they do and naturally get Betty Crocker moist, especially seasoned milfs. If a girl is pre lubed I ask her to wash it if I want to daty. Usually only if I'm the first one in the morning.

Not all use summers eve between customers. Usually it's the gold mining panning technique with water hose soap and pan. I love when they let me watch the show too.