Jmac, if I were you, I would see her (I don't think she will DFK or even LFK), but maybe it's YMMV or maybe she didn't like my ugly mug...I still had a good time overall, as I mentioned SILVER...
In my early hobby days, I didn't quite observe the kissing style. I knew there were girls who were great at kissing, and some who were barely adequate. It took a while before I understood the nuances of the tongue. I do find that most good kissers are tongue kissers. I had a list of top kissers a few weeks ago. Gigi and Tessa, the top two, amazing tongue action.
I'm still not 100% sure how much of a distinction there is between LFK and DFK. I have had some sessions where the tongue play is quite heavy, and others where there is a lot more light playfulness. In general, I prefer the playfulness than the heaviness, although heavy is great, too. I have had some good kissing sessions without any tongue action at all. The last time I saw Chantelle before she retired, the kissing was incredible, but she didn't use her tongue at all.
One thing I can state for a fact is that when you really like the girl, the kissing is much more enjoyable. Chantelle is a great example. I kept going back because I liked her, and the kissing, which was good when I first met her, kept getting better and better. I don't think it is a coincidence that I rate Gigi as the sweetest girl in the city and the best kisser. I am a little less clear on which is the cause and which is the effect sometimes. A great kisser, well, how can you not really like the girl?
If Gabriella doesn't kiss at all, I find it hard to believe that she would be my type. I think I have only had three girls that don't kiss that left me happy. Sara at Pure is different in every way, and wonderful. Kimberly at SRM (retired) said there would be no kissing, but we wrapped ourselves up like a pretzel and somehow I just really liked her. (And being that gorgeous helped.) And Kyra, of course.