Chat How do these girls end up after industry exit?

[Deleted member 94218]

Just reminder: MPAs, SPs, Escort girls, agency girls, spa girls are humans too. Therefore, like all humans the wise ones are ending up good. I know an MPA who works in a hpoitsal as a registered nurse (operation room: in high demands). I know a couple of MPAs that opened their own non-sex business and are in very good shape financially.
The same is true in a fmaily as well: one son becones doctor, another one becomes engineer and the third son endes up drug addict and homeless. So it depends on every and each of the girls.

I don't care what any of them claim, bbfscip, you are not leaving without a nasty track record of STDs

 

[Deleted member 94218]

Sounds like you've been in this stage before..I'd be open to dating/marrying an MPA. It's not going to happen to me but would love to hear stories from others who have

No fucking way, would I ever consider one, most women are fucked up enough I don't need the added bullshit of this industry to make it worse. I respect what they do, but that's where it ends for me.

 

[Deleted member 94218]

… it’s fun befriending mpas, but I haven’t dated them… … rules = all different …

Agree, that's as far as I've gone, friends. In fact I've introduced one to a business associate and she changed careers, but I knew from her personality and looks it could happen. She and I were close sexually but knew the boundaries. That was years ago, haven't heard from her since and don't care if I do just glad she's doing ok, I guess.

 

[SumYang_KUM]

No fucking way, would I ever consider one, most women are fucked up enough I don't need the added bullshit of this industry to make it worse. I respect what they do, but that's where it ends for me.

Remember the old saying: hookers will be the best mothers

 

[Deleted member 94218]

Remember the old saying: hookers will be the best mothers

 

[cupcrazy]

what the mpas do after they retired are their businesses. they removed me from wechat, etc after they retired. they don't want to be reminded what they do in the past.

 

[hangul99]

what the mpas do after they retired are their businesses. they removed me from wechat, etc after they retired. they don't want to be reminded what they do in the past.

Depends on the MPA. I still meet a retired MPA for coffee once a month.

 

[bhoust]

So it seems impossible for most of these girls to be doing forever, right?

I see that Holly of Seductions started out as a stripper in 2015. Then 7 years down the line she turned into a BBFS escort. It seems like from all the posts over the years that this is a common trajectory. They start out doing massages then gradually progress to BBFS. I guess for them it's a slippery slope and they start out selling dignity with massages and covered handjobs. And then that seems normal so they start offering CBJ. Then BBBJ. Then CFS. Then BBFS. Then CIP. I guess they are also drugged up and get addicted to this lifestyle of easy money. And then they are used to the money but they have been out of the workforce for a long time and the alternative pays $15 an hour so they just stick to this forever.

I see from the recent BBFS lists that they all started out as low mileage girls and then moved to high mileage offering BBFS to everyone.

But what is the next stage for them then? These girls rely on looks. You can't do this when you're 40 and be as popular as you are when you are 20. Do they just get pregnant by clients when they start offering CIP and then entrap them and call it quits? What do they do when they are old? Do they just keep long term clients and see them into their old age?

Anyone keep in touch with escorts that have quit a long time ago? What do they do? Are they happily married? Happily single? Pregnant with kids? How do they get by?

Anyone have any stories to share? Really curious about this side of the industry.

There are girls who works for the family, there are girls who works to change their lives, many different cases and of course it's called industry and making money is easier than going to work with a salary of 15$/hour. I wanna be like them xD

 

[Asscream]

Depends on the MPA. I still meet a retired MPA for coffee once a month.

Why?

 

[hangul99]

Why?

Why not?

 

[Deleted member 104821]

… it’s fun befriending mpas, but I haven’t dated them… … rules = all different …

I wouldn't mind dating one for a bit tbh. However... marrying is another story lol.

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

U gotta think 3 factors…

1. Not much chance 2 socialize
2. Awkward explaining yer career
3. Meetng a dude whose ok w what u do 2 make $$$

… so more common then yer guessing … let me add… when they no yer single, some gals really up the mileage !

This really hits home. I was having a conversation with an MPA about a week ago about this and I really did feel bad about the struggle of being in that business. Granted she was working at a place that is pretty much just strictly legit at the time but prior was in a semi legit place and she had to leave her husband who wasn't okay with what she doing. Has a kid with the guy too which just adds to the stress of it.

Its either lying about what you do for a living or finding a guy who is okay with you being an MPA and giving HE....or of course just be single but that's also a lonely life for a girl in that industry. Its tough.

 

[aa84aa]

From my own experiences: it boils down to whether the girl has a long term plan with actual goals, or short term with essentially no plan.

I've had girls I've seen for years open up to "why," and the ones who exited on their own terms. The ones who exited on their own terms (for whom I'm genuinely happy for) transitioned to:

• Leveraging their ECE, and opening up a daycare
• Becoming a human trafficking advocate
• Becoming a real estate agent in a completely different city and province
• Opening up their own spa and managing
• Becoming an author and hockey mom
• (as mentioned above) Becoming a RN at a University St. Hospital

There are too many girls who have absolutely no plan, get caught up in the $$$, travel, freedom, partying, and have age/fast living catch up:

• Retiring and un-retiring many times - if they're attached to an agency/spa, freely provide their personal contact info, so you can book directly, seeing them before/after "official" hours, cutting out the agency/spa fee
• Moving to OnlyFans, IG, YouTube, trying to become an "influencer," peddling cheap bikinis and trashy/slutty/WTF clothes
• Living a lie that they have plans that never seem to get past fantasy to reality to fruition
• Being a "student" for more than a decade, not realizing there is a limitation of how long every University allows to get an undergrad degree
• That their substance use is under control and they can manage and handle it
• What was tight and sexy no longer is
• Plastic surgery that starts small and becomes bigger, literally.

Never a pretty picture. With many fooling themselves they have a plan which is really finding a SD as a gold-digger. But how appealing after 100s if not 1,000s of clients.

Pardon the transparency in this post.

 

[xtc27]

From my own experiences: it boils down to whether the girl has a long term plan with actual goals, or short term with essentially no plan.

I've had girls I've seen for years open up to "why," and the ones who exited on their own terms. The ones who exited on their own terms (for whom I'm genuinely happy for) transitioned to:

• Leveraging their ECE, and opening up a daycare
• Becoming a human trafficking advocate
• Becoming a real estate agent in a completely different city and province
• Opening up their own spa and managing
• Becoming an author and hockey mom
• (as mentioned above) Becoming a RN at a University St. Hospital

There are too many girls who have absolutely no plan, get caught up in the $$$, travel, freedom, partying, and have age/fast living catch up:

• Moving to OnlyFans, IG, YouTube, trying to become an "influencer," peddling cheap bikinis and trashy/slutty/WTF clothes
• Living a lie that they have plans that never seem to get past fantasy to reality to fruition
• That their substance use is under control and they can manage and handle it
• What was tight and sexy no longer is
• Being a "student" for more than a decade, not realizing there is a limitation of how long every University allows to get an undergrad degree

Never a pretty picture. With many fooling themselves they have a plan which is really finding a SD as a gold-digger. But how appealing after 100s if not 1,000s of clients.

Pardon the transparency in this post.

All true… & funny thing, us clients haven’t figured out life that well either!

 

[aa84aa]

All true… & funny thing, us clients haven’t figured out life that well either!

Very true - but hopefully we've figured out enough to be able to sustainably and sensibly finance our extracurricular activities.

 

[karlcox]

I’ve kept in contact a few from popular spas. One is a nurse now. Another works in commercial real estate. One is only 22, still works in the spa and is investing in real estate.

There are some smart girls in the industry. They took an unconventional path.

 

[xtc27]

I’ve kept in contact a few from popular spas. One is a nurse now. Another works in commercial real estate. One is only 22, still works in the spa and is investing in real estate.

There are some smart girls in the industry. They took an unconventional path.

Condos = a big strategy … I remember one gal interested in them, so I found a few in her price range … she acted all cool, like oh yeah, I no about those… then a minute later, heard her speaking (slightly angry) 2 her agent “Why didn’t u tell me…”


… if u buy a few , u can resell @ profit or live off income… or setup an incall… or all of the above!

 

[throwaway33]

Many already have established lives with boyfriends, family, etc either here or in some other city and just working to pay off debts or buy toys
Knew two younger girls who bought several condos and became Esthetician's/Landlords.

Of course there are many with additions that are stuck in this industry who I feel sorry for. I went to the casino a few times with some working girls and they way they play will have them working forever.

 

[Sybarite]

I never got any type of BB service from her. I've never even got ANY service from her because I've never seen her!

I am just going off by what others have been saying.

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Watch movie Casino. Robert De Niro. Good example of what will happen in that scenario.

Ginger played by Sharon Stone is a hustler not a MPA or SP (she might be a sex worker since she still hangs out/has affection for her pimp bf played by James Woods). She cleans out wealthy dude's pockets @ the casino..Ginger tried to do that with Sam unfortunately, but Sam saw the writings on the wall and still took a serious risk in marrying Ginger.