Hello folks,
I faced similar problems of constant begging of numbers from all new comers.more over a dozen of pm's a day.Due to that, I stop writing FR's. But the problem seems uniform across the forum. So I suggest some solution. We can set up 3 member committee.Committee members will be elected by all senior members.Now coming to newbies.A senior member should nominate a newbie to committee, and unless committee accept the newbie, no one shall share any contacts with the newbies.This way, our contacts will remain genuine and diminish the chances of falling into wrong hands.It may be long process, but we can at least spare that much for 1) Safe-guarding our girls 2)guarantee on number genuine 3) Can curb LE problems 4) Not giving a chance to inflate the rates by girls due to over exchanging and popularity.
For newbies, now it your responsibility to win the confidence of senior members. any senior members may suggest any other options how newbie can approach the seniors.
this is just my opinion. If any other senior member got other solution, can discuss over here.