Lena - Russian

[quesoblanconorte]

I think that if someone is going off with off-the-wall conspiracy theories during a massage, I would likely cut the session short. I’m glad that a factual review was offered.

 

[Spexx]

Agreed. If OP didn't like the conversation why not just move on and not see her again? Even giving a review of the massage itself would have been fine but instead OP decides to attack the person's character? After she let you into her home? It doesn't make sense to me.

By destroying her character on this forum you risk harming her business and livelihood. Why? Do you think this is ok? Her having a widely different opinion from you isn't grounds to then attempt to destroy her business. Why attempt to take food off of someone's plate like that..

People like OP are truly evil but really think they are doing good. Crazy to see. A poor review is warranted if the massage itself is poor; but these attacks of a person's character isn't right.

If it was as simple as moving on I would. Conversation is one thing, yet I feel I made it as clear as I could that I was not comfortable with the conversation yet she would not stop the rederick.
Sure I feel responsible that my comments will have a negative impact on her livelihood, however I also feel that is a public service. Lena is blatantly ignoring and refusing to adhere to the health guidelines in place to keep us all safe.
Have your opinion, but if you are offering a personal service especially one which includes intimate offerings, your primary responsibility is the health, comfort, and safety of your customers. I do not feel any of those requirements were met and as this is a forum to share the good and the bad, I have done so. To my peril, likely. Yet still, here it is.

 

[Rubmegood]

No need to apologize, Spexx. You gave an honest review of your massage. And a person's anxiety level; mental relaxation; and sense of security is as much a part of the massage as the actual manipulation of muscles, tendons and ligaments. You didn't "destroy her character" she did that to herself. Any SP in this business should have the common sense to not start confrontational conversations when they are trying to promote a sense of peace, tranquility and relief of tensions. As far as I'm concerned a good SP will quickly "read" her client- i.e. "don't speak unless spoken to." If I want to talk I'll talk. If I'm there to just get "lost" in the massage and get away from a hectic day of dealing with people and co-workers- I don't want some SP talking about anything- let alone conspiracy theories! You were probably a bit harsh calling her "batshit crazy" but I, for one, appreciate your review as it possibly saved me from the same experience. And, yes, if she is following this forum maybe she will take this criticism to heart and learn from it and improve her services. So, in a way, you actually did her a favour by bringing this to her attention so that she will have more clients; happier clients; and return clients- and glowing reviews!

 

[Spexx]

You were probably a bit harsh calling her "batshit crazy"

Absolutely. I regret that and only that with regard to my review, however I leave it there. It showcases what I felt at the time and yet reminds me that I need to find better ways of providing my review of the providers character.

 

[michael garrett]

I have seen Lena numerous times and have never had a problem with her conversation. If she doesn't talk, people bitch and call her "not friendly". If she has opinions, they are supposed to conform with yours. Sometimes a person just can't win. She is a nice lady and I have always enjoyed my time with her. If there are any recommendations, it would be to cut the talk during the finish. Not saying this applies to her as I cannot remember but this applies to many ladies who like to chat during the session. At the end, just let a guy relax and focus on the pleasure.

Again, like all the other threads, we just cannot keep from the name calling, can we? I hope someone did refer her to this thread but just because someone is respectful does not make them a white knight. Maybe they ae the normal ones and you are the asshole. Ever try thinking of that one?

ever think that Everyone thinks your an asshole rotten old fart ?

 

[Old Fart]

Lena is blatantly ignoring and refusing to adhere to the health guidelines in place to keep us all safe.

Did she tie you down so you can never get your second shot? How were you not safe? How is her opinion of the second shot any worse than Redneckman telling anyone who has not ignored him so far that lockdowns are not good because his right to earn a living is more important that other people's lives? Most of you guys on here are so self centred and do not give a rat's ass how your comments affect another person'r right to earn a living. If you do not like her opinions, don't listen or don't go or better yet, have the guts to tell her you want to talk about something less controversial. It's easy to blame others. But I guess brain and class were never prerequisites for joining the board. As long as people keep kissing your ass and agreeing with you, the are making a contribution to the board. In keeping with 'RMG Ignore Method' I can say the same, there was a time I had respect for your posts. Guys bitch about government shut downs to save lives but I guess you feel free to affect someone income because you do not like their opinion. And yes, it was about her opinions unless she somehow made it impossible for you to get your second shot.

 

[Old Fart]

People like OP are truly evil but really think they are doing good. Crazy to see. A poor review is warranted if the massage itself is poor; but these attacks of a person's character isn't right.

Absolutely !

 

[Old Fart]

See, this...This is why ladies think so many of you guys are too full of shit and have nothing better to do with your lives. Call me a White Knight, I don't give a rat's ass cuz your calling me that does not make it a fact (contrary to your beliefs).
This sent to me from CAF, a "review" of Liv at Elite, but I feel it needs to be put here, in this thread to show what kind of bat-shit crazy the ladies have to put up with.

She's quiet and doesn't attempt to talk so it was awkward and I didn't feel comfortable. Not the best experience but have a few reviewed Elite girls on my radar.]

 

[Guy2013]

That goes for most things. Say it enough times and you believe it.
I have a big dick.
I have a big dick.
I have a big dick.
I have a big dick.

Well, will you look at that.

Hell, now I believe you have a big dick.

 

[Guy2013]

Hey, at the end of the day this is a "review" forum.....
Spexx gave a review, detailed the facts, so take it for what it is.
If Lena doesn't like the review than she should learn from it, keep her political opinions to herself. When you deal with the public in any capacity you learn to temper what you say, that some topics are best to avoid at the risk of offending others.
Frankly if I want a political discussion I can go to social media, if I want a rub and tug, I go to someone like Lena. The two don't necessarily mix

 

[Spexx]

Did she tie you down so you can never get your second shot? How were you not safe? How is her opinion of the second shot any worse than Redneckman telling anyone who has not ignored him so far that lockdowns are not good because his right to earn a living is more important that other people's lives? Most of you guys on here are so self centred and do not give a rat's ass how your comments affect another person'r right to earn a living. If you do not like her opinions, don't listen or don't go or better yet, have the guts to tell her you want to talk about something less controversial. It's easy to blame others. But I guess brain and class were never prerequisites for joining the board. As long as people keep kissing your ass and agreeing with you, the are making a contribution to the board. In keeping with 'RMG Ignore Method' I can say the same, there was a time I had respect for your posts. Guys bitch about government shut downs to save lives but I guess you feel free to affect someone income because you do not like their opinion. And yes, it was about her opinions unless she somehow made it impossible for you to get your second shot.

No I was not forced to do anything and yes I did express that I disagreed with Lena’s opinions, however it seemed to do nothing more than enhance her need to prove me wrong. It seems you have a greater understanding of my session than I have shared which means you likely have been in contact with Lena. And being the case you likely know the extent of her disregard to the public health guidelines. This is why I felt unsafe. I am not immune. We take enough risks even going for massages but I do so with some confidence that the provider is adhereing to the public health guidelines and trying their very best to keep their patients as safe as possible.
I won’t sling anymore mud and share more of the session, I think I have made my point.
This is not simply a review, Lena is risking the health of her patients with her “opinions” about Covid. This isn’t just a conversation in the Timmy’s parking lot with some Redneck anti-masker, this is a personal care session.
You are correct on one point, I should have had the guts get up and leave, but even if I had, I would still have voiced my concern here.
Stay safe and get vaxxed!

 

[michael garrett]

See, this...This is why ladies think so many of you guys are too full of shit and have nothing better to do with your lives. Call me a White Knight, I don't give a rat's ass cuz your calling me that does not make it a fact (contrary to your beliefs).
This sent to me from CAF, a "review" of Liv at Elite, but I feel it needs to be put here, in this thread to show what kind of bat-shit crazy the ladies have to put up with.

information has revealed that the rotten old fart is a part/full owner of a studio and has close relatives working in same...he does not take sessions rather comments on other providers to further his own interests

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

That goes for most things. Say it enough times and you believe it.
I have a big dick.
I have a big dick.
I have a big dick.
I have a big dick.

Well, will you look at that.

I have small, extremely beautiful dick!!!
But, I only have to say it once...

 

[Cabinmon]

Oh my god, I feel like I just came from a near death experience.
I knew it would be an interesting experience and I booked anyways because I wanted, good or bad, something different. The reviews have been somewhat neutral but all with a common comment that she was very opinionated.
Well I just have to say this lady has a very strong opinion about Covid. The extreme right-wing babblings that seemed like a compilation of Trump and Fox News over the last 2 years rolled up in an hour massage was enough to put me on edge though I expect that uneducated stupidity, after all I live in Alberta. When the ramblings turned into demands that I not get my second vaccination; that the “Reptilian Evil-doers” are creating an apocalypse in an attempt to win the war of souls. The sermon continued to tell me that Dr Theresa Tam is a Reptilian Transgender who only wants to encourage vaccinations in order to cause lower immunity and make the population dependant on the health care system, while Trudeau is not actually alive but a hologram being run by the Reptilian Transgenders who want to kill us all.
I could fill this post with the absolutely insane verbal vomitous that continued through the entire massage but I still need to process and compartmentalize it all before I can share it with any level of clarity.
I swear I started to consider leaving but also became very concerned if I even muttered anything contrary to her “opinion” I might actually get a hot stone across the back of the head. All I could do was politely bite my tongue and make semi agreeing comments at key points.
On the flip I was so soft and lacking any real interest but somehow managed to finish. I hope she is not on this forum. I could totally see some sort of Fatal Attraction level shit.
Stay away, stay very far away. Unless you are a red hat wearing, antivax moron, or complete isolationist; Lena should be avoided at all costs!!!
Massage was a 5 maybe 4. Doesn’t matter, fuck I need booze.

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If I went through a sci-fi lecture like that I would warn others as well. That’s what this forum is supposed to be for. Don’t be bothered by the criticism because the atmosphere is as important as the massage. If the atmosphere is toxic it’s a downer and thankfully you’ve told our members

 

[Albertaman]

In any one on one 'personal attention' business whether it is in health services, finance or pleasure, the onus is on the provider, supplier, to assess their client before going off on any tangents in any conversation. The client is a captive audience for the duration of the interaction. Why would one want to create the wrong type of ambience? It's not about the correctness or incorrectness of the information. It's simply not the right time. The client did not pay in order to hear a speech during that time. Spexx did the right thing by posting his experience. In Calgary, there is a provider to remain unnamed, who went as far as saying she did not want to see clients who had had a vaccination. I can just imagine her speeches.


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[Deleted member 72001]

.......Do you think this is ok? Her having a widely different opinion from you isn't grounds to then attempt to destroy her business. Why attempt to take food off of someone's plate like that..

Just checking, but Spexx, did you book a 60 min “opinion debate” or a massage?

I don’t know, maybe the customer should be allowed to set the theme of conversation. It’s on his/her dime!!!!

If Spexx is that concerned, it is definitely a part of the massage she should maybe take a closer look at.
Transgender hate speech is ok in your eyes as “an opinion” but Spexx voices his opinion and you and Old Fart find fault in that? SMRT.
If she is so against the covid “hoax”, and doesn’t believe in it, does she sanitize correctly? Ya, Spexx should feel threatened,

When do you plan on contributing to ANY thread......like with a massage review BSmalls1?

 

[ObiWanPotato]

Oh my god, I feel like I just came from a near death experience.
I knew it would be an interesting experience and I booked anyways because I wanted, good or bad, something different. The reviews have been somewhat neutral but all with a common comment that she was very opinionated.
Well I just have to say this lady has a very strong opinion about Covid. The extreme right-wing babblings that seemed like a compilation of Trump and Fox News over the last 2 years rolled up in an hour massage was enough to put me on edge though I expect that uneducated stupidity, after all I live in Alberta. When the ramblings turned into demands that I not get my second vaccination; that the “Reptilian Evil-doers” are creating an apocalypse in an attempt to win the war of souls. The sermon continued to tell me that Dr Theresa Tam is a Reptilian Transgender who only wants to encourage vaccinations in order to cause lower immunity and make the population dependant on the health care system, while Trudeau is not actually alive but a hologram being run by the Reptilian Transgenders who want to kill us all.
I could fill this post with the absolutely insane verbal vomitous that continued through the entire massage but I still need to process and compartmentalize it all before I can share it with any level of clarity.
I swear I started to consider leaving but also became very concerned if I even muttered anything contrary to her “opinion” I might actually get a hot stone across the back of the head. All I could do was politely bite my tongue and make semi agreeing comments at key points.
On the flip I was so soft and lacking any real interest but somehow managed to finish. I hope she is not on this forum. I could totally see some sort of Fatal Attraction level shit.
Stay away, stay very far away. Unless you are a red hat wearing, antivax moron, or complete isolationist; Lena should be avoided at all costs!!!
Massage was a 5 maybe 4. Doesn’t matter, fuck I need booze.

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Same thing happened to me with Lena......hardcore rants about anything will never belong in a massage no matter what. i left very uninterested in a HE.

 

[Rubmegood]

When do you plan on contributing to ANY thread......like with a massage review BSmalls1?

(He's Old Fart's son- Young Fart!

 

[JR16]

Spexx, I thought your review was good. Been there myself, and yeah the vaccine/COVID nonsense was nuts but my neck hurt so I stuck it out. P.s. It is spelled rhetoric. Thanks for posting.

 

[Spexx]

P.s. It is spelled rhetoric.

Damn and I even googled it. Doh!