Hello guys...
I think this FR is not related to this discussion but still it might be helpful to others ...
I am 23yr old good looking guy. I went on a date with a hot NE chick with whom I was in touch for quite a few months. We met on social media. She lived quite far from my place. Gradually we started talking like gf-bf. Late night calls and chats on whatsapp and all that. Then, we decided to meet. It is Mumbai. The climate was humid as usual. We had a plan to go to movie and then to marine drive. But, she also said that she has to go home early. Then we met ( I shouldn't have met her as the day before meeting up..she was giving me friendly vibes ...no sexual tension or attraction as it was before ).
It was a first date and I was also not in the mood to do anything( it was one of the days when I act weird. Also, I had slept for only 4 hours yesterday cuz of some work ). She changed the plan saying she has to go early and decided to visit a restaurant. And I am not talking about a normal restaurant but a fancy restaurant. We took a cab and reached the restaurant. We ordered food and drinks. She saw a couple romancing and said she does not like 'touchy couples'. That made me even more disinterested in doing anything. So naturally, I did not touch her. I paid the restaurant bill. No KISS, No girlfriend vibe, just stupid food and drinks with a girl. We just talked and had friendly touching.
I had heard that NE girls don't offer extras in MPs but experienced it with a real NE girl... Lol
I think NE chicks are very conservative and shy and completely money-minded.
And then we left the restaurant and went to marine drive. She didn't want to go there and was booking the cab the whole time we were sitting there( like 10mins). She booked and went to the cab. I was irritated and felt bad since it was happening for the first time in my life. I went out with a chick and No KISS, No SEX, No boob touching, Nothing. I don't feel bad that she used me but that I became a 'pussy' on seeing a good-looking girl.
I lost my ground and now I feel ashamed of myself for behaving like a fu*cking pussy.
Charges:
Cab-300
Restaurant -2500
Time wasted in traveling and being with her.
Pathetic experience. I felt so bad that I didn't even drop her in the cab as she was walking fast without looking even if I was walking with her or not. Like she didn't care. Later, she msged and called me and we argued about the 'feeling bad' part.
Lessons learnt:
1.Never go out with a chick if you are not in the mood or if there is no sexual tension.
2.Don't go out with NE girls. Avoid them.
3.Never put a 'pussy' on a 'pedestal'.
4.Keep your ground and behave like a man. Don't become a 'pussy' on seeing a hot girl.