I consistently read only positive reviews of Saya, Sierra, and others but now I understand those may be shills as well. I am still believing in hidden gems there...
I made really one moron mistake which still keeps putting me down: I accepted the upsell at the very beginning before even seeing how she would behave and do the massage during the first at least 10 mins. So idiotic! First get to know a new MPA, how she is doing the standard massage and only then you may accept the upsell after 20 mins of massage to have fs for the remaining 10 mins. So when you are offered an upsell at the very beginning, there should be an immutable solid steadfast rule to always respond: "I would want a massage for the first 20 mins, I will decide on it closer to the end of the session". Ideally maybe always decline an upsell with the MPA you see for the first time and if all goes well with the standard massage, then you can book her later for the second time anyways.
Here are the red flags I see for a shit session:
1. No introduction or hug. Handshake is stupid imho, because we ain't making a business deal.
2. Ask for extras right off the bat and constantly during the massage
3. Try to upsell you with basic (ie. bodyslide, shower, massage, etc..)
4. Demands you to lay down for a massage and not ask what you prefer
5. Too many restrictions - no touching, does not get undressed, does not lay down on the bed with you
Here are the red flags during the session (or after you decline extras):
1. Light to no massage. No teasing either to get you in the mood
2. Waste the majority of session on massage and does not escalate for HJ (so 20 mins is too much time wasted)
3. Constantly watches the clock or stealth 5-10 mins of your session by setting alarm too early
4. Wants you to quickly finish
5. Bad hygiene and does not shower after session