My brother in christ dont forget that the owners, the workers, and the promoters here are all engaged in illegal activity. They are criminals.
Whether what they do SHOULD or SHOULD NOT be legal isnt the commentary here- just that it IS.
So stop thinking they are all helpless mousey girls, they are clever and mean and cutthroat. To eachother, to clients, you name it.
The truly sweet, innocent and mousey girls dont rub dick for a living in 30min revolving door fuck shops- full stop.
I think the owner who steered you away made a good choice, maybe lost 100$ but saved a headache knowing you are a gentleman of finer tastes...