Oliver,
I happen to agree with you about identity. But, some of these women are pretty clever. And even if she is not the sharpest pencil in the case, one of her co-workers, friends, boyfriends and/or employers probably are aware of eforum.xxx, and she hears about it. It's not like it was in the early days of this board when WE knew about eforum.xxx but very few MP's did. We could talk freely amongst ourselves then. Now, the word gets back, sooner or later, sometimes even from board members, which is another problem altogether.
Think about it... you have reviewed hundreds of women over the years and you claim exceptional mileage (I'm not disputing your exceptional mileage, I'm using it to make my point). When the MP that gave you that exceptional mileage reads your review, she has to know it's Oliver K that shew blew or doggied with, since she didn't do it with anyone else.
What's the difference? You didn't tell her who you were before or while you were there, but the result is the same. I'm sure a lot of MP's know who you are in person now that they have cross referenced you to eforum.xxx, Merc or MM. It's an unfortunate by-product of a public board, and one of the reasons why certain people don't kiss and tell when they find a gem that they think is giving them something special. In the end, that really sucks for all of us...the 'find your own private gem' mentality is pretty common these days.
The other issue is PM'g an MP or an SP for a session, of course she will know who she is dealing with, and maybe she will try harder based on reputation in hopes of getting a thumbs up from a respected member, it's human nature. I also don't like to do that, but many guys do...again, I don't see the harm, but personally I don't see the benefit, nor do I want any extra (fake) attention, I do well enough for what I want.
My response when it rarely comes up is "Board? What board? Now please be quiet and get back to work..."
Rt