What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

[Charma]

Thats not a GFE its Wife Experience who takes all your money and makes you feel like you didnt pay her at all.

 

[cornucopia]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

Gen I believe there should still be an expected menu. I've seen the phrase thrown around we pay for the ladies time, that's all good to say from a legal POV but I pay to have pure raunchy sex. If I see GFE listed and I 'm only given a CBJ I am not a happy camper as I head out to catch the subway back. I am not accusing you of short changing anyone because based on your reviews you are outstanding in the service department, but there are ladies out there that intentionally mislead the clients in order to make the quick buck.

 

[Mat G]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

I did...see my ATF on my profile...see who's name is there...hmmmm ? :mrgreen:

 

[Philadelphia]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

Of course there are. But isn't that what review boards are for?

Also keep in mind that there is a significant market for safe GFE, and those who are looking for a safe experience don't consider a CBJ to be antithetical to a girlfriend experience. Like there are many clients who for personal reasons do not want to kiss, but are still looking for a GFE provider.

My point was that there is not one single definition of what GFE means, not from the perspective of the providers, nor from the perspective of the clients. So what matters is what you consider GFE, and to find those providers who fit within your definition of GFE.

 

[Paige A.]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

I just did. I'm flattered.

But what does "special circumstances" mean? Is it something dirty?

 

[Yakuza]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

If there is at some point going to be some form of industry standardization and regulation implemented, I call first dibs for the job of "GFE Regulator". Looking forward to overseeing client sessions on behalf of the industry from the comfort of my cushy office (in the condo closet) where I can discreetly monitor (peering creepily through the louvred doors) all the action and render the necessary compliance judgements.

Where do I go to get my official "Chicken Inspector" Badge?

 

[Sexual Predator]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

If such regulation happens in Canada, chances are Occupational Health and Safety protocols will be put in place, and that translates to cbjs when bbbjs are considered hazardous and become "illegal", as in New Zealand. Their OHS manual is extensive, and in some places, hilarious, and includes rules against smoking in the workplace, disposal of hazardous waste, instructions on what to do if the condom breaks, etc.




Failure to do so can mean a hefty fine.


I expect there are also some eye wash stations conveniently located in the (legal) brothels, and safety inspectors come by all the time to ensure protocols are being following, the safety posters are prominently displayed, and the work rooms are clean and sanitary. (some brothels in Germany were shut down last year due to failure to meet minimum sanitary requirements).

 

[|Chris]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

Seems pretty straightforward to me.

GFE = GirlFriend Experience.

Have you ever met a guy who had a girlfriend that would not let him kiss her? Legitimate medical reasons notwithstanding, passionate kissing in our culture is a staple of every healthy relationship. Even in the movies, the easiest way for a couple to pretend to be GF/BF is to embrace with a deep kiss. Therefore, if a GFE is offered but there's no real kissing then the "experience" is simply not there.

 

[Fail Whale]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

Right on spot MS. Thats exactly what it is. If no kissing its just an "Experience" Not "Girlfriend Experience"

 

[flabbrgastdNY24]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

GFE = GirlFriend Experience.

This term reminds me my ex GFE who gave me terrible experience and couple of maxed out credit cards! Bad Memories!!!! :grrrrrr:

 

[training day]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

GFE means there's a companionship element, and not just mechanical sex, so it's somewhat more intimate, and usually includes kissing possibly with tongue, and bbbj.

However, 'Safe GFE' means little or no kissing and CBJ.

 

[Jitter]

Gen, for me what is central to GFE is the SP’s ability to create the illusion of intimacy . . . in other words to treat me more like a lover than a client . . .

 

[ck01]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

In a text messaging world GFE is just short form for a list of services that should include DFK, BBBJ, DATY. All of which needs to be qualified by YMMV to take into account breath cleanliness etc.

The business side of the industry frequently uses it as a marketing tool and that has tended to confuse the issue by layering on the intangibles or worse substituting the basics for the intangibles. I don't care how you slice it I would not describe any session "post mortem" as GFE if I got a CBJ ( which I just happen to dislike) no matter how nicely she held my hand and wispered sweet nothings in my ear.

 

[MississippiQueen]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

Back in the days when I first started hobbying standard SP sessions did not contain kissing. Most SPs didn't offer this, as it was a reserved for a b/f type thing. So, GFE basically as I see it evolved to include LFK or DFK, YMMV but some form of kissing: that which was previously held back for a b/f-g/f only relationship. The 'just for the b/f" thing became BBFS. As a result there are many GFE SPs who, aside from BBFS, will offer just about any standard service a client would like.

The funny thing is according to oldtimers back in the 1970's and before (before I started hobbying) BBFS was often offered, but kissing was a no no. Ah, the joys of the pre-AIDS existence when almost all STDs could be cured with antibiotics lol.

When I see a girl who describes herself as GFE I tend to expect conversation and kissing.

 

[bossglaus]

What does " GFE " mean to you ? ..Should there be a standard ?

Some of the girls, I suspect agencys more, especially with Korean girls are really pushing the limits. The girls don't want to kiss the customers but the agents want to advertise "full GFE" this creates a lot of angry exchanges client vs SP and client vs agency.

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